Hello

[bpierce]

I am the mother of a 14 yr old asd boy. He also has the adhd, odd, and mood disorder to go along with it. It has become challenging the last few years and with my marriage. My husband is his step father but I feel he has given up on my son and soon our relationship. I am here to see if what we are experiencing is normal and to gain knowledge from others.

 

[exactlyloved1]

My brother mom and I both are on the spectrum. My brother had Severe combined asap and when I was a teenager I was diagnosed with ODD. Idk what ur struggling with specifically, but it helps to keep in mind that it is likely he is more frustrated with himself than u when he had a melt down, even if it seems like he's mad at you.

 

[Vanilla]

Welcome

It sounds like you're in desperate need of some serious help. We'll do what we can to try to give you the answers you need to hopefully get through this.

Firstly, I recommend posting in this thread, so that others, who may have experience in this sort of situation, can provide you with their own experiences:
Parenting & Autism Discussions | AspiesCentral.com

I also recommend looking at our recommended resources, for books on AS:
Resources | AspiesCentral.com

I especially recommend looking in to resources written by Dr.Tony Attwood, as he is not only one of the leading professionals in AS, but specialises with children:
The Complete Guide to Asperger's Syndrome | AspiesCentral.com

If you have yet to seek professional help, then this is obviously a necessity. It's important to ensure you find a specialist who works well with you, and your son, and has an intimate understanding of AS. Try a few different professionals if you're unsatisfied.

I hope you are able to find the answers you need to get through this.

 

[bpierce]

Thanks I just signed up so I'm still figuring it out but I will definitely check them out.

 

[Salmongirl17]

Hello and Welcome!!