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Hello, my name is Brian, I am new here.

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BrianWV39

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Hello, my name is Brian, I am 39 and live in West Virginia. I just turned 39 a couple of days ago. I hope everyone reading this is doing well.

My primary reason for joining social media sites is to look for a girlfriend. I have always wanted to get into a romantic relationship. It has not happened to me yet, but it is my biggest goal in life.

I like music, weed, reading, and writing. If anyone would ever like to chat I am always happy to chat.

Thank you all so very much.
 
Welcome, @BrianWV39

Relationships are a difficult huddle for us. I do think there is someone out there for you. Hopefully it all works out for you.

In the meantime, I hope you find some helpful info and make some friends while you're here.
 
BrianWV39 said:
Hello, my name is Brian, I am 39 and live in West Virginia. I just turned 39 a couple of days ago. I hope everyone reading this is doing well.

My primary reason for joining social media sites is to look for a girlfriend. I have always wanted to get into a romantic relationship. It has not happened to me yet, but it is my biggest goal in life.

I like music, weed, reading, and writing. If anyone would ever like to chat I am always happy to chat.

Thank you all so very much.
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Welcome aboard duder. I'm a huge music fanatic, as well as those other few things you mention. What bands are you into?

I'm going to tell you right now, relationships can be tough, and ultimately if you try to force them to happen, they're rarely ever going to happen. It is a paradox man. People that are trying to desperately get into relationships come across as well, desperate, lacking confidence, and most people not only don't find that attractive, it's rather off putting. Until you can confidently enjoy being yourself alone, without any need of a relationship, you probably wont find one. Not a decent one anyways.
 
Thanks, I have never been in a relationship and I have been single all my life. I am very happy and content with my life other than my absence of a romantic relationship. That is why getting a girlfriend is my biggest and really only goal in life going forward.

I am kind of a unique person. I love music and listen to it endlessly. But I do not like to talk about what bands or composers I like. It depends on my mood. It depends how many times I have listened to them. I might hear something and love it one day and not really feel it the next day. So, I try not to label myself or box myself into a corner by saying I like such and such type of music or any particular band, musician or performer.

I have learned I like what I like. And that is about it.
 
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