So, about a few days before Christmas (I think it was actually the Sunday before Christmas), my girlfriend told me that she wants to take a break from the relationship. She said that she isn't ready yet because of some stuff she is dealing with that I can't reveal here for her privacy's sake. Also, as far as we know, she is, in fact, neurotypical.
I'm not ready for a relationship yet, either, and I think I realized that just after I broke up with her. I have my own problems to work on. I can't really explain how I feel very well, and I try to keep my emotions in because of that.
Sometimes, I can be overly-affectionate, not like anything inappropriate for a 15-year old to do, but just sometimes I don't know when I am making somebody uncomfortable or not, even when intending not to. I also need to figure out how people are reacting to me properly, and what causes that reaction.
I also have some trouble understanding body language related to romantic feelings, too, especially since I have not really experienced somebody displaying romantic behavior before dating her.
I do see a therapist for all of these issues and more, and I do believe it helps a little bit. However, talking with my therapist sometimes forces me to say how I feel out loud, and I usually end up not saying my thoughts and emotions to my therapist because of that. Don't get me wrong, I trust my therapist and she is just a kind lady, it's just that is insanely difficult for me to put my feelings into words when spoken out loud and without anything to reference off of beforehand (maybe I should just go into my appointments with her with a folder or something).
I am asking for advice here because I am better at expressing my feelings through text and the internet rather than spoken words.
Also, I am fine with just being friends with her for a while until we're ready, if you are wondering.
What are your thoughts on this?
I'm not ready for a relationship yet, either, and I think I realized that just after I broke up with her. I have my own problems to work on. I can't really explain how I feel very well, and I try to keep my emotions in because of that.
Sometimes, I can be overly-affectionate, not like anything inappropriate for a 15-year old to do, but just sometimes I don't know when I am making somebody uncomfortable or not, even when intending not to. I also need to figure out how people are reacting to me properly, and what causes that reaction.
I also have some trouble understanding body language related to romantic feelings, too, especially since I have not really experienced somebody displaying romantic behavior before dating her.
I do see a therapist for all of these issues and more, and I do believe it helps a little bit. However, talking with my therapist sometimes forces me to say how I feel out loud, and I usually end up not saying my thoughts and emotions to my therapist because of that. Don't get me wrong, I trust my therapist and she is just a kind lady, it's just that is insanely difficult for me to put my feelings into words when spoken out loud and without anything to reference off of beforehand (maybe I should just go into my appointments with her with a folder or something).
I am asking for advice here because I am better at expressing my feelings through text and the internet rather than spoken words.
Also, I am fine with just being friends with her for a while until we're ready, if you are wondering.
What are your thoughts on this?