This is my first time posting here. I've been to multiple psychiatrists, and I've had so many different labels thrown at me (ADHD, OCD, Social Anxiety, Asperger's, Depression, etc.). I feel like I have a bunch of varying/overlapping issues and no clear understanding of how certain symptoms correspond to a particular disorder. One thing that I often read about with ASD/Asperger's is a dislike for change. I never really thought that this issue applied to me, but now I'm wondering if I just never thought about it correctly.
An example would be the positioning of items, such as the layout of my wallet. Everything has to be kept in the same spot, and I can't handle any changes. Even if it makes sense to move something, I can't do it. It's not worth it for me to even try, because it will just make me upset. I don't like to make changes once I have an established layout, even if those changes would make sense.
Another example would be something as silly as my browser layout (ie. Chrome). I came into work one morning, and I felt like something was different. I was pretty sure that my bookmarks bar hadn't previously been showing and now it was. I couldn't stop fretting about it and wasted time trying to find a browser screenshot from an earlier time. I know it doesn't matter, but my brain just wouldn't let it go. What could have ended up being a good day was derailed by something so trivial.
Similar to that, we have a software interface that we use at work. It would be helpful for me to change the columns around, so that information is more accessible. For some reason, I can't do it. I can't change the original layout, otherwise my mind will go crazy.
I could really apply this to all sorts of situations. One of my coworkers once borrowed my chair while I was out of the office. That would normally have been fine, but the person readjusted my chair configuration, and it made me so anxious. I was a mess the entire day, because my chair didn't feel right. I wanted it back to the original configuration which I knew wouldn't be possible.
I don't have this problem with everything, so I'm not sure why certain things trigger it.
Does this make sense to anyone? Can anybody relate? Why would I be like this?
An example would be the positioning of items, such as the layout of my wallet. Everything has to be kept in the same spot, and I can't handle any changes. Even if it makes sense to move something, I can't do it. It's not worth it for me to even try, because it will just make me upset. I don't like to make changes once I have an established layout, even if those changes would make sense.
Another example would be something as silly as my browser layout (ie. Chrome). I came into work one morning, and I felt like something was different. I was pretty sure that my bookmarks bar hadn't previously been showing and now it was. I couldn't stop fretting about it and wasted time trying to find a browser screenshot from an earlier time. I know it doesn't matter, but my brain just wouldn't let it go. What could have ended up being a good day was derailed by something so trivial.
Similar to that, we have a software interface that we use at work. It would be helpful for me to change the columns around, so that information is more accessible. For some reason, I can't do it. I can't change the original layout, otherwise my mind will go crazy.
I could really apply this to all sorts of situations. One of my coworkers once borrowed my chair while I was out of the office. That would normally have been fine, but the person readjusted my chair configuration, and it made me so anxious. I was a mess the entire day, because my chair didn't feel right. I wanted it back to the original configuration which I knew wouldn't be possible.
I don't have this problem with everything, so I'm not sure why certain things trigger it.
Does this make sense to anyone? Can anybody relate? Why would I be like this?