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Ex making my emotions go haywire

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psu2012

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So I posted before about my ex and to sum up, broke up through text and now seeing a fwb. So the other day I get a strange visit, she hacked my fb and was angry that after 3 months of being broken up, I had the gaul to try and move on. She was in a murdering mood, not a joke she actually brought up murdering me. She proceeded to cry and I held her like I used to and she asked if I could really like this girl more than her. And all the feeling I had supressed came flooding back, I told her I loved her. After a few days of pretty much acting like we did as a couple she told me she loved me. Last night I saw her and then did something dishonest myself, I saw her text messages. She wanted to see her fwb, who as it turns out is a high school senior who had sexted her asking for sex while we were together and were 23. So I tried to confront her about it and at first she was fine, and acted caring. We agreed to work on us, and I promised not to date anyone else. I asked if she could stop seeing that guy, at that time she completely did a 180, she said we should be distant friends and as friends I couldnt ask for that. This girl has my mind so confused and she makes it so hard because as I was moving forward she broke up with me all over again. Any advice? I wish I didnt feel, why cant that myth about Aspergers actually be true?
 
Having Aspergers does not mean you do not have feelings.It is common to lack empathy which is different all together.
As far as the girl goes, I think you already know that the best thing to do is move on. I'm sure she still loves you, but not in the way she used to and it sounds like a really unhealthy relationship.
Good Luck with whatever you decide.
 
I know how you feel, not you personally so much as how I would feel/do feel in your shoes.

Right now I still miss someone, but due to the labels/bashing they gave me am not saying or doing anything about it. Since they don't/didn't feel the same way. I don't know if its loneliness, a general broken "empathy" or what with me but....

Good luck with things psu :) I wish the myth about no feeling at all was true. Or craving introversion for that matter....
 
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