grommet
Well-Known Member
I have been putting off taking a trip to the bank but I have to go. I am worried because they are going to ask me questions and give me papers to sign and I am not going to understand but I have to go. I wish someone could go with me but I have to do it myself.
Wouldn't it be nice if when we had to do something and were nervous we could call another aspie and they could go with us. They wouldn't have to do anything or maybe if they were good at that kind of thing we could trade that helping each other. We could have a pool of aspies who are good at different things and we could call each other for help. It's silly and couldn't really happen but aspies central is kind of like it. We help each other here.
Anyhow, tomorrow or soon I need to make this trip I have been putting off. I hope it isn't as bad as my last visit out, when I went to the doctor's office by myself. I am not built for rapid fire questions and paperwork and signs to follow. I am so good at so many things but ordinary life things are so hard for me.
I have to learn to stop depending on other people and do for myself. I think this is the only way to grow up.
I remember the last time I was in an ambulance going to the hospital with an injury. That whole trip, that whole day didn't seem as scary as being well and having to find my own way through the doctors clinic last week. I feel like that about the bank. People speak to me and ask questions and are calm because for them it is normal. For me it is like a tiny terror.
It's hard to be so competent at so much that normal people think is hard and not be able to do what is so easy and normal for them. One day I will figure this out, how to feel okay about being who I am. Until then, it's going to be hard.
Wouldn't it be nice if when we had to do something and were nervous we could call another aspie and they could go with us. They wouldn't have to do anything or maybe if they were good at that kind of thing we could trade that helping each other. We could have a pool of aspies who are good at different things and we could call each other for help. It's silly and couldn't really happen but aspies central is kind of like it. We help each other here.
Anyhow, tomorrow or soon I need to make this trip I have been putting off. I hope it isn't as bad as my last visit out, when I went to the doctor's office by myself. I am not built for rapid fire questions and paperwork and signs to follow. I am so good at so many things but ordinary life things are so hard for me.
I have to learn to stop depending on other people and do for myself. I think this is the only way to grow up.
I remember the last time I was in an ambulance going to the hospital with an injury. That whole trip, that whole day didn't seem as scary as being well and having to find my own way through the doctors clinic last week. I feel like that about the bank. People speak to me and ask questions and are calm because for them it is normal. For me it is like a tiny terror.
It's hard to be so competent at so much that normal people think is hard and not be able to do what is so easy and normal for them. One day I will figure this out, how to feel okay about being who I am. Until then, it's going to be hard.