I've been wondering if any of you guys who are on the spectrum have partners, relatives or friends with ADHD (without Autism)? Or the other way around somebody with ADHD have relationship with a person on the spectrum. My husband has ADHD, and as my counselor says, he's a very typical one I believe my mom if not ADHDer but ADDer for sure. My dad is most likely on the spectrum. I find we are very similar, but at the same time an extreme opposites... I know it's weird, but that's how it feels. I know my thoughts can spin and rush but it seems different. It's like my thoughts are in chunks and usually dedicated to one subject at a time, and it's hard for me to switch from one subject to another. Their thoughts are "speeding" at 200 miles per hour, and sometimes in opposite directions and those thoughts could be about completely different subjects. One thing I have problem with, they wonder why I'm so slow, while I'm wondering why can't they take it easy. We also can flip pretty quickly but for different reasons. My reasons mostly sensory, their reasons emotional... or maybe they make it emotional while in reality, the real reason is inability to be patient, to slow down and chill. I find that this difference is hardest to deal with because it's not easy for both sides to understand, the only thing you can do here is to accept without understanding. One more thing that bothers me a little (not as much any more) their organization system: to stuff everything in closets so when you open them, everything falls out, or just leaving stuff lying around because, one day they'll get to it I think, from my experience, people with ADHD a lots of fun, they are challenging and creative. But sometimes they both get on my nerves, just like I'm sure, I get on theirs
Does anybody else have similar experience?
Does anybody else have similar experience?