1 person after I paid for 20 lunches and she kept saying to me "I will get the next one" and never did, that one went south. Another one I gave the $2700.00 because they were about to become homeless and lose their car, but I told people we did this exchange, so she is not speaking to me. 1 person I told them they act like they are 17 year old and now we are not speaking (she kept forgetting her credit card when going to the pharmacy -happened twice) and another time she ran out of gas in car while driving and we had to sit for an hour until someone got there to save us. I told her I was annoyed by all her flighty behavior and now we are not speaking. My sister and I are not talking because I listened to her ***** for 10 years, then finally starting bitching myself on the tail end of the 10 years and she told me to "stop my bitching". I went off with her on that because I had been listening to her for years and being a good friend/sister but she was not the same with me. She did not want to listen to people's issues but she wanted all to listen to her issues. Another friend every time she came in my house she broke something and I always was the one paying for our entertainment so I finally kicked her out because she was a train wreck to me. My ex is not speaking to me because each time he got more income I went and adjusted our child support accordingly by the law of the state. My sister in law -we got into a beef because every time I told her issues going on in my life she would tell me "do not tell your brother it will upset him so I could never tell my brother the bad things going on with my life (this went on for 10 years) until I finally told sis in law "I can tell my brother whatever I want and quit dismissing all in my life" so that went south too. She wanted my brother to always send money to her family in Mexico and if he found out I was having issues he would want to send money my way. She did not want him to send money my way so she would always tell me please do not tell your brother this. She told me this about 10 times in 10 years which really dismissed my issues in life which was not right. I finally told her at Christmas time I will tell my brother what I want when I want and do not tell me that again !!! By the way the girl I gave the 2700.00 to was a co worker, not a friend at all and all her friends gave her nothing only an acquaintance came to help her which was me or she would be out on the street right now