Do people you love keep screwing you over?

[Fino]

So the real reason you were kind was to get something out of them, and they didn't deliver? You're upset about your manipulation not working out.

 

[Shevek]

Short answer, no. I don't have a lot of love for individual people, and it goes away if I get abused. Then I go away before it happens again.

 

[lovely_darlingprettybaby]

People I love screw me over all the time so I’m not too surprised or angry when it happens anymore.
Just disappointed.

Me 2, it happens constantly even though I have a good heart

 

[lovely_darlingprettybaby]

Short answer, no. I don't have a lot of love for individual people, and it goes away if I get abused. Then I go away before it happens again.

That is understandable. It hurts so much and all you want to do is run.
I have been abused a lot lately and I just got sick of it so now I do not let it happen, I get even.
Because things hurt me so much and my pain is valid. And anyone who truly loves you will say ur pain and hurts and feelings are valid and you do not have to compare them to others at all.
And I no longer am going to let myself be hurt by envious women, it is their fault and they need to rid the envy from their hearts.
And women always have some excuse and never think of how much they are hurting another.

 

[lovely_darlingprettybaby]

I'm having trouble comparing something that hasn't had proof to reality.

But let's say some father wants to protect their offspring and goes in danger with some kidnappers as long as they leave the children alone. There are factors such as duty towards humans which is a group he belongs to, propagating his children, avoiding consequences whether they are mental conscience or people judging him, feeling strong because he can take care of his children who are helpless, etc. Apparently there is a lot of such nuance that can play with such a decision even if the person is well intended and has somebody else's benefit in mind.

I believe in hero's and have seem evidence.
Even sept 11 twin towers were heroes, they risk their lives each day and climbed those towers because it was their job to rescue and help people without a thought to themselves.
I heard a person in sept 11 who let everyone down in the elevator before himself and since he was the last he died.
A lot of dad's would save their kids I geninuely know my dad would save me if I was in trouble and
He would rescue someone in a fire because it is cfa, he can be fairly selfish but I know if someone was desperate I think he'd do it particularly if it were a kid or women.