I was wondering is it normal, to feel ''distant'' or not on the same page? I never really ''fit in'' growing up, and now at 40 I still feel ''someplace else'' as opposed to guys my age. I do ok with women and getting dates no problem, but the entire ''NT World'' I can't ''keep up.'' I see guys I went to high school with, can handle being doctors, lawyers, cops, working in the city, all while having a big family on top of that. I was wondering and I am not talking anyone down, or think I am better than, but do Aspies still have small remnants, of classic Autism such as preferring our own mind and imagination? yet we know what is really go on?