I am in need of a bit of advice.
I have a bad relationship or virtually non relationship with my second sister ( long story as to why).
From time to time through out the years, she attempts to contact me with what I now know are false plattitudes. The recent one, was her messaging me with some really strange things and it was only afterwards, when I discussed it with a good friend, did I come to understand a bit more. Basically, she had reconnected with our last sister, who was adopted when she was 7 and because V (second sister) is easy to find, my little sister was able to connect with her ( but it did warm my heart, that I was the first one she wanted to reach out to, since I am the eldest.
I am not too sure what was in V's mind. She started to say that she realised a few things etc that I will always be her sister blab blab blab.
This is where curiousity has done me no good. My third sister mentioned that she and her man were angry with V, because she posted a picture on facebook of their reunion, without asking permission and I STUPIDILY went into V's profile and could not believe it. She plasters pictures of three of them saying how much she loves her sisters and worse still, our one cousin commented and not once asked where I was!
The thing is that my third sister mentioned her guy was urging her to say something, but I do not think my third sister has mentioned anything.
Unfortunately, I cannot get it out of my mind that V claims to love me, but made no mention of me. Although I do get the impression that she wants to be seen as the eldest.
Do I messenger V and ask her why she did not mention me?
I know the world is in a crisis and this seems so ridiculous, but what can I do lol
I have a bad relationship or virtually non relationship with my second sister ( long story as to why).
From time to time through out the years, she attempts to contact me with what I now know are false plattitudes. The recent one, was her messaging me with some really strange things and it was only afterwards, when I discussed it with a good friend, did I come to understand a bit more. Basically, she had reconnected with our last sister, who was adopted when she was 7 and because V (second sister) is easy to find, my little sister was able to connect with her ( but it did warm my heart, that I was the first one she wanted to reach out to, since I am the eldest.
I am not too sure what was in V's mind. She started to say that she realised a few things etc that I will always be her sister blab blab blab.
This is where curiousity has done me no good. My third sister mentioned that she and her man were angry with V, because she posted a picture on facebook of their reunion, without asking permission and I STUPIDILY went into V's profile and could not believe it. She plasters pictures of three of them saying how much she loves her sisters and worse still, our one cousin commented and not once asked where I was!
The thing is that my third sister mentioned her guy was urging her to say something, but I do not think my third sister has mentioned anything.
Unfortunately, I cannot get it out of my mind that V claims to love me, but made no mention of me. Although I do get the impression that she wants to be seen as the eldest.
Do I messenger V and ask her why she did not mention me?
I know the world is in a crisis and this seems so ridiculous, but what can I do lol
