Cyanide Lollipop
Well-Known Member
Here's a question for anyone who has been or who currently is in a longterm relationship, particularly an AS-AS relationship, or if you know other Aspies in longterm relationships. Since we're known for having a narrow range of interests, do you and your partner have the same or similar interests? Is it a problem if you don't have much in common, other than your "Aspie needs" (e.g. sensory issues)?
I recently met a man who exhibits a number of AS traits. We chatted easily for 2.5 hours when we first met and during the conversation he admitted he has social difficulties. Although he had never heard of AS he wanted to know something about it and when i told him he said he has a number of AS traits. I've noticed a few in him myself. We went out on a date on the weekend and although I've not yet identified any common interests, once again we chatted quite easily for about 4 hours. We're going out again next weekend. I'm really puzzled at how we have connected so well, despite having little in common to talk about or do together.
I recently met a man who exhibits a number of AS traits. We chatted easily for 2.5 hours when we first met and during the conversation he admitted he has social difficulties. Although he had never heard of AS he wanted to know something about it and when i told him he said he has a number of AS traits. I've noticed a few in him myself. We went out on a date on the weekend and although I've not yet identified any common interests, once again we chatted quite easily for about 4 hours. We're going out again next weekend. I'm really puzzled at how we have connected so well, despite having little in common to talk about or do together.