I feel that I am unusually sensitive and sometimes unusually insensitive. I think the things that really do matter to me which I am sensitive to substitute the things that don't matter to me. It's weird but I guess for something to matter so much, something else has to not matter at all for me. For instance, I am sensitive to my own pain and I can't stand seeing others in pain (it can make me sad, scared or squeemish depending on what's involved) but I don't feel anything if someone dies.
Dying isn't such a problem or issue to me since the person or animal no longer has to go through anything. I don't think I've had such an emotional connection with people who did die (even family and pets) for it to be such a big deal. If my favourite person (my crush) passed away, it would matter because she means everything to me and I think she's special, so I would therefore feel really empty and sad if I knew she didn't have a life and she would never see, think or talk to me again.
I like to do what I can not to hurt people and it's probably to do with the fact that people are offending me and hurting my feelings heaps during a week. People are very emotionally hurtful even if they don't mean to be. If I get called selfish or I am yelled at or even if I'm nicely told that it's wrong to do something I did, it can leave me in tears and hurt me for years and I don't mean any harm. My autism or sensitivity doesn't seem to be completely understood by people as much as I understand that I could risk hurting other people's feelings. I probably find about anything hurtful that you think may be slightly hurtful. I think people also don't think before they speak which could cause emotional problems for the listener. People must adapt to sensitive people so that there feelings don't get hurt although even if I explain what hurts my feelings to my mum, she continues to say or do it. I feel that my family have little respect for my feelings. I think the best thing to do about this would probably be to find some friends who are nice, caring, understanding, accepting, bright and happy (these are my favourite qualities of a friend) and spend lots of time with them when I'm old enough to drive and afford my own home.
This is probably something I would need help with since I'm unusually sensitive to what others say to me. Other people don't care if a teacher tells them to stop talking. I wish that was me. I wish I didn't take things so offensively. I would be so upset, I might cry. I wish I didn't care what others say to me and in what tone they say things to me or I wish I could limit my time with hurtful people but I can't escape my family yet. I'd rather have the not so hurtful friends in life.
Dying isn't such a problem or issue to me since the person or animal no longer has to go through anything. I don't think I've had such an emotional connection with people who did die (even family and pets) for it to be such a big deal. If my favourite person (my crush) passed away, it would matter because she means everything to me and I think she's special, so I would therefore feel really empty and sad if I knew she didn't have a life and she would never see, think or talk to me again.
I like to do what I can not to hurt people and it's probably to do with the fact that people are offending me and hurting my feelings heaps during a week. People are very emotionally hurtful even if they don't mean to be. If I get called selfish or I am yelled at or even if I'm nicely told that it's wrong to do something I did, it can leave me in tears and hurt me for years and I don't mean any harm. My autism or sensitivity doesn't seem to be completely understood by people as much as I understand that I could risk hurting other people's feelings. I probably find about anything hurtful that you think may be slightly hurtful. I think people also don't think before they speak which could cause emotional problems for the listener. People must adapt to sensitive people so that there feelings don't get hurt although even if I explain what hurts my feelings to my mum, she continues to say or do it. I feel that my family have little respect for my feelings. I think the best thing to do about this would probably be to find some friends who are nice, caring, understanding, accepting, bright and happy (these are my favourite qualities of a friend) and spend lots of time with them when I'm old enough to drive and afford my own home.
This is probably something I would need help with since I'm unusually sensitive to what others say to me. Other people don't care if a teacher tells them to stop talking. I wish that was me. I wish I didn't take things so offensively. I would be so upset, I might cry. I wish I didn't care what others say to me and in what tone they say things to me or I wish I could limit my time with hurtful people but I can't escape my family yet. I'd rather have the not so hurtful friends in life.