Hello,
I've been suffering from mild to severe depression states on regular basis since i was a kid, with self-harm and suicide toughts and attempts since i was about 16. Recently, i had a particulary severe episode where i'd sometimes almost lose consciousnes and fall, have uncontrolled arm movements and a really hard time focusing my toughts and had to be commited to get it under control with antipsychotics medication. At the hospital, the doctor, after seeing for like 3-4 hours in total tought that i had asperger. This was based mainly on the fact that i didn't feel like talking to anyone while i was there. I didn't feel like talking to the patients because most of the where low-educated person with problems i don't wan't to relate to like drug abuse and i didn't feel like talking to the staff because i knew that they pretty much tried it only because they were analysing me. Now, i'm out a seeing a new doctor and after 2-3 sessions, she agrees with him and says that i have only "a little" asperger syndrome but that i'm going to be under medication my whole life and she thinks there's nothing else wrong with me.
Now, i have a problem with this for 3 reasons.
1) I think saying that i have a little asperger because i have some symptoms is pretty stupid. I have also some symptoms of schizophrenia (i stopped talking to my family when i was about 20 for no real reason), that doesn't mean that i have a little schizophrenia. I drink one glass a day, that doesn't make me a little bit alcoholic.
2) Asperger is a pretty serious diagnostic that has to be made in a specialiazed institute by a team, i don't understand how you can say to someone "i've seen you 3 times and i think you're autistic, now live with it"
3) I simply don't think I have it and neither does my girlfriend. I actually tought i might have it a few years ago, but when i dove further into the symptoms i saw that it didn't fit.
Here are the symptoms that i have :
- I don't like people. Most of the people anyway. I like really intelligent people, artistic people, but i just feel that most of humans out there are pretty above average uninteresting ones. They're not passionate about anything, they just do their job, earn money and spend their time going out with their friends, getting drunk and fat. I like scientist, artists, interesting people with an interesting life. I just don't like chit-chatting about the weather and stuff like that. I have a few close friends and a girlfriend (really brillant girl) with which I am really close with.
- I don't like noise, especially high pitched ones. I especially don't like hearing people talk or scream because i don't like to be reminded that they are living close, i just like feeling like i'm really on my own at home. My sensibility to high pitched noises might be cause i'm a musician and might have hurt my hearing a few times.
- I'm pretty clumbsy, i've always been and my handwriting is terrible. But it's not that bad. I'm a pretty good guitar player, i'm good at sports racket sports and i'm pretty agile when it comes to climbing things, running, etc.
- I don't like heavy sun and lights.
On the other hand :
- I don't feel like i have no empathy or trouble reading people's intentions.
- I don't think i have heavy lack of non-verbal expression. I would have to film myself to know for sure i guess, but nobody ever complained about that to me.
- I have a really good imagination. I can write pretty decent stories, write music, etc.
- I don't have a lack of sense of humour, on the contrary. I feel like most of the time i'm telling jokes and have trouble about talking seriously. I don't misunderstand metaphores or anything like that.
- I don't really have any routines. Actually, i get pretty easyly bored of doing the same things, eating the same food, etc.
- I don't have a lack of understanding of the society's rules. I never say things to people that i shouldn't. I sometimes say things that can be taken as an ofense like "Hey, you got pretty old since the last time i saw you" but it's always a joke. I chose to ignore some rules. I don't wan't to chit-chat with every people i meet because it's "normal". If someone doesn't interest me, i'm not going to force myself talking to him.
I also don't have any "super powers". My memory isn't really good, i really suck at maths. I think i have a pretty high IQ, people always have told my that i was really intelligent and had a high writing level but that's all.
My girlfriend aggrees 100% about is. She knows me very well and there's nothing autistic like with me. When i'm with her, i'm a normal person, sociable, etc. I score about 70/200 on the aspie test. We both think that other diagnostics like borderline syndrom or bipolar disorders fit me better.
The thing is, i had a traumatic experience when i was a kid. My parents moved to a new city and both the children and teachers at school were mean to me. Like really mean. I suffered some racism, beat-ups. I'm not the only one, other kid's had a similar experience and a lot of parent tried to get some really bad teachers fired without success. I saw a lot of shrinks when i was a kid because i was really depressed and talked about killing myself. I passed a lot of test and nobody ever saw anything autistic in me. I got only diagnosed with ADD. Since then, i've always been kinda weird. Before that, i was a normal and sociable child, after that, i was always on my guards with other children and felt like they were going to be mean to me. It always went okay after they got to know me and know them, but it always took a long time filled with loneliness. It didn't help that i was a huge geek, into video games and books with horrible giant glasses and a total lack of interest for most things from my age.
This diagnostic really depresses me. First because i think it's wrong and feel like my psychiatrist doesn't understand me at all, but mostly because i think there's something else wrong with me and i'm starting to think that nobody will ever really help me. SInce then, i have been drinking from times to times to help myself to sleep and i've harmed myself again.
Thanks for the ones who would have the patience to read me and please pardon my poor english.
I've been suffering from mild to severe depression states on regular basis since i was a kid, with self-harm and suicide toughts and attempts since i was about 16. Recently, i had a particulary severe episode where i'd sometimes almost lose consciousnes and fall, have uncontrolled arm movements and a really hard time focusing my toughts and had to be commited to get it under control with antipsychotics medication. At the hospital, the doctor, after seeing for like 3-4 hours in total tought that i had asperger. This was based mainly on the fact that i didn't feel like talking to anyone while i was there. I didn't feel like talking to the patients because most of the where low-educated person with problems i don't wan't to relate to like drug abuse and i didn't feel like talking to the staff because i knew that they pretty much tried it only because they were analysing me. Now, i'm out a seeing a new doctor and after 2-3 sessions, she agrees with him and says that i have only "a little" asperger syndrome but that i'm going to be under medication my whole life and she thinks there's nothing else wrong with me.
Now, i have a problem with this for 3 reasons.
1) I think saying that i have a little asperger because i have some symptoms is pretty stupid. I have also some symptoms of schizophrenia (i stopped talking to my family when i was about 20 for no real reason), that doesn't mean that i have a little schizophrenia. I drink one glass a day, that doesn't make me a little bit alcoholic.
2) Asperger is a pretty serious diagnostic that has to be made in a specialiazed institute by a team, i don't understand how you can say to someone "i've seen you 3 times and i think you're autistic, now live with it"
3) I simply don't think I have it and neither does my girlfriend. I actually tought i might have it a few years ago, but when i dove further into the symptoms i saw that it didn't fit.
Here are the symptoms that i have :
- I don't like people. Most of the people anyway. I like really intelligent people, artistic people, but i just feel that most of humans out there are pretty above average uninteresting ones. They're not passionate about anything, they just do their job, earn money and spend their time going out with their friends, getting drunk and fat. I like scientist, artists, interesting people with an interesting life. I just don't like chit-chatting about the weather and stuff like that. I have a few close friends and a girlfriend (really brillant girl) with which I am really close with.
- I don't like noise, especially high pitched ones. I especially don't like hearing people talk or scream because i don't like to be reminded that they are living close, i just like feeling like i'm really on my own at home. My sensibility to high pitched noises might be cause i'm a musician and might have hurt my hearing a few times.
- I'm pretty clumbsy, i've always been and my handwriting is terrible. But it's not that bad. I'm a pretty good guitar player, i'm good at sports racket sports and i'm pretty agile when it comes to climbing things, running, etc.
- I don't like heavy sun and lights.
On the other hand :
- I don't feel like i have no empathy or trouble reading people's intentions.
- I don't think i have heavy lack of non-verbal expression. I would have to film myself to know for sure i guess, but nobody ever complained about that to me.
- I have a really good imagination. I can write pretty decent stories, write music, etc.
- I don't have a lack of sense of humour, on the contrary. I feel like most of the time i'm telling jokes and have trouble about talking seriously. I don't misunderstand metaphores or anything like that.
- I don't really have any routines. Actually, i get pretty easyly bored of doing the same things, eating the same food, etc.
- I don't have a lack of understanding of the society's rules. I never say things to people that i shouldn't. I sometimes say things that can be taken as an ofense like "Hey, you got pretty old since the last time i saw you" but it's always a joke. I chose to ignore some rules. I don't wan't to chit-chat with every people i meet because it's "normal". If someone doesn't interest me, i'm not going to force myself talking to him.
I also don't have any "super powers". My memory isn't really good, i really suck at maths. I think i have a pretty high IQ, people always have told my that i was really intelligent and had a high writing level but that's all.
My girlfriend aggrees 100% about is. She knows me very well and there's nothing autistic like with me. When i'm with her, i'm a normal person, sociable, etc. I score about 70/200 on the aspie test. We both think that other diagnostics like borderline syndrom or bipolar disorders fit me better.
The thing is, i had a traumatic experience when i was a kid. My parents moved to a new city and both the children and teachers at school were mean to me. Like really mean. I suffered some racism, beat-ups. I'm not the only one, other kid's had a similar experience and a lot of parent tried to get some really bad teachers fired without success. I saw a lot of shrinks when i was a kid because i was really depressed and talked about killing myself. I passed a lot of test and nobody ever saw anything autistic in me. I got only diagnosed with ADD. Since then, i've always been kinda weird. Before that, i was a normal and sociable child, after that, i was always on my guards with other children and felt like they were going to be mean to me. It always went okay after they got to know me and know them, but it always took a long time filled with loneliness. It didn't help that i was a huge geek, into video games and books with horrible giant glasses and a total lack of interest for most things from my age.
This diagnostic really depresses me. First because i think it's wrong and feel like my psychiatrist doesn't understand me at all, but mostly because i think there's something else wrong with me and i'm starting to think that nobody will ever really help me. SInce then, i have been drinking from times to times to help myself to sleep and i've harmed myself again.
Thanks for the ones who would have the patience to read me and please pardon my poor english.