Activities when too tired

[vergil96]

I'm not sure if this is an autism thing, but I suspect it is? Sometimes I get really tired and:
1. I can't warch or listen to electronics, because media are too bright and too loud
2. My ADHD gets out of hand and I stim constantly and it's annoying for me and gets in the way of doing anything
3. I can't focus on reading and move too much for it. Same goes for playing the guitar and other activities
So I sit or lay there and stim. But it's depressing and boring, I would rather have something to occupy my mind a bit. I usually watch a film or read a book to relax, but it's sometimes impossible.

So... if anyone feels the same way sometimes, how do you cope? What do you do to occupy your mind if everything is too much?

 

[Chonebox]

Can you sit still without noise?

 

[vergil96]

Can you sit still without noise?

often not

 

[Chonebox]

often not

Try staring at the celling without a sound for 5 to 10 minutes. I just did it now.

 

[Outdated]

When I'm tired I go to sleep. but that's my usual response to just about anything. Injured and sore, sleep it off. Stressed from too much socialising, have a sleep. Got sick, go to sleep.

There are times caused by stress when I get a bit like you describe - can't sleep but can't concentrate on anything either. For me that means just stare at a wall and daydream for a couple of hours, then sleep.

I don't have any trouble sitting still though.

 

[vergil96]

and daydream for a couple of hours

How do you keep it from becoming negative? If I'm tired or sick to this degree, I ruminate, because the bad mood provokes negative thinking and fatigue - a degree of disinhibition, so I spiral...

 

[Chonebox]

How do you keep it from becoming negative? If I'm tired or sick to this degree, I ruminate, because the bad mood provokes negative thinking and fatigue - a degree of disinhibition, so I spiral...

 

[WhitewaterWoman]

I sleep. I see all the symptoms you describe as being caused by insufficient rest, at least for me.

If I can't sleep, I still undress, get in bed and then read. I know you said you couldn't read and that happens to me sometimes too. If I can't read, I'll try watching a video that I have seen before, ie no new stimuli. Watching a film in a foreign to me language seems to help.

My mind may still wander, but the video keeps me anchored in reality instead of spiraling down.

To stop the negative things, I have to replace it with STOP, STOP, STOP in my mind. Just STOP. Usually that wears me out enough to sleep. BTW, it is exhausing to repeat that STOP over and over, holding the negative stuff at bay.

 

[Rodafina]

This might be counterintuitive because your thread is about being "too tired," but I think physical exertion might help with what you've described. It sounds like you are describing brain fatigue. If I am able to exhaust my body with exercise, it is much easier to sit in the quiet darkness I sometimes need for my brain (from visual and auditory overstimulation). Exercising helps me manage strong emotions and being physically spent helps me sleep.

 

[vergil96]

Exercising helps me manage strong emotions and being physically spent helps me sleep.

For me too usually, but I'm too tired for that sometimes too. I literally tilt and can't organise enought to exercise in any way, take a walk, anything. I wish I could fall asleep and just wake up feeling well enough to at least read or watch something, but I can't. That's the essence of the problem. I have ADHD and I need physical activity during the day to fall asleep at night, not only because of emotions. I have lots of energy to begin with. If I want to calm down, it's easier if it's dark and quiet too, but it's not enough :/

I think I could listen to the gentle music and sounds of nature. But I can't watch a film, because a tablet is too bright. I already make the settings the darkest possible, but it's too bright for me.

 

[Rodafina]

But I can't watch a film, because a tablet is too bright. I already make the settings the darkest possible, but it's too bright for me.

I have this problem, too. I spend a lot of time listening to movies or shows that I have seen before. Some movies/shows are more conducive to audio-only.

 

[vergil96]

I have this problem, too. I spend a lot of time listening to movies or shows that I have seen before. Some movies/shows are more conducive to audio-only.

I think I can try listening to a show only too. I do it sometimes when falling asleep.