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Tony Ramirez

Tony Ramirez

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Everyone Hates Me 48 From Brooklyn, NY
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  • Tony Ramirez
    I hate women. My parents kicked me out because of them
    Tired
    Tired
    For how long did they kick you out?
    tree
    tree
    @Tony Ramirez
    What does that mean?

    Your parents kicked you out because of women.
    You didn't invent women.....
    Tony Ramirez
    I wish I could kill myself
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    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    I am about to do this after I again got kicked out of another new so-called loving church. Just to say I hate women and people, and to isolate me from society.
    Aspychata
    Aspychata
    Sorry to read you don't feel accepted. l don't necessarily like crowds of people such as church groups, and meet-ups. Hoping you can find some hobbies to help you thru this part of your life. Drawing landscapes, drawing people, reading books. Anything where you use your hands can be very satisfying and help you feel better.
    Aspychata
    Aspychata
    Join a gym and just walk on a treadmill, or take a new exercise class.
    Tony Ramirez
    Going away again for a while for my mental health.
    Even getting a new trauma therapist, the last one was a bully support is from the midtown church.
    Tony Ramirez
    Women can do whatever they want to men even emotionally break them but if a man even shows his emotions he is a weirdo ignored even arrested. If a women cries or even looks gloomy everyone is by her side.
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    Masked Man
    Masked Man
    I suspect a large portion of the supposed "male loneliness epidemic" and subsequent higher rates of mental illness is due to the absolute lack of and unwillingness to learn emotional regulation skills on the part of men. No one, I repeat, NO ONE wants to be around angry men who can't and won't control themselves.
    S
    Steelbookcollector217
    yeah i attended the funeral for the person whom i lost to suicide back in July.
    H
    Hypnalis
    On aggregate, XY's have better emotional regulation than XX's, due to differences in upbringing and cultural influences (yes really). But that's hardly relevant to Tony's issue.

    Tony: a "talk therapist" probably isn't ideal. Someone who can help you control your behavior would be better.
    Or you can choose to listen to the (relatively few) people here who can guide you in that direction.
    Tony Ramirez
    I lost interest in volunteering and gardening. I am not welcomed in either space.
    FayetheADHDsquirrel
    FayetheADHDsquirrel
    I'm sorry to hear that. Is there anything that you still enjoy even when you don't have anyone to do it with?
    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    Nothing really the word is Anhedonia
    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    She looked at me and ignored me, like those women did at the Café those 143 days I was there. I lost it.
    Tony Ramirez
    Had a horrible day today. Mother insulting me. Women ignored, hated me. I am miserable and tired of living.
    FayetheADHDsquirrel
    FayetheADHDsquirrel
    I'm sorry you are having a bad time again. I hope tomorrow will be a better day. Just purposefully think about the positive things no matter how small they are.
    S
    Steelbookcollector217
    how does your Mom insult you? what does she say to you?
    Tony Ramirez
    I'm getting dumber by the day because of the way women hate me.
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    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    Your not me or seen the hatred or faces they give me especially when they get up and leave when I'm sitting here then or they sit or they avoid me.
    tree
    tree
    Definitely true that I am not you.
    So I don't know what you see.

    I have seen how you frequently interpret people's intentions
    in a negative way, though. As if you believe you can read
    their minds.
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    Matthias
    Social isolation and emotional distress (from feeling rejected or hated) can impair cognitive and intellectual functioning. Therefore, if the women's you've been approaching don't want a relationship with you, it might be worth considering relationships with others, such as older women or men.
    Tony Ramirez
    Women hate me. I thought I was wrong, but yesterday all day first volunteer which I know I am going to get kicked out of proofed it.
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    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    Needed help and that women purposely ignored me trying to cut the branch three times I said you SOB to her and I got in trouble. It's a volunteer to help others, not just be with your clicks friends and talking to a social class to meet new people.
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    Steelbookcollector217
    did things fall apart between that woman you mentioned you met back in August?
    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    Yes as always they eventually ghost or don't get back to me unless I text them first and even then I have to beg on my hands and legs.
    Tony Ramirez
    How many meetup groups did I get kicked out of.
    Three count them because they don't understand my meltdowns. The other three I didn't I am still in because one has a daughter, a partner who works with autism and the other person is disabled.
    Judge
    Judge
    If they are meetup groups oriented specifically with autistic members in mind:

    "Yes, autistic meeting groups should aim to create a supportive environment that tolerates meltdowns, as they are often a natural response to overwhelming situations for autistic individuals. Understanding and compassion can help members feel safe and accepted during such experiences." -Duck Duck Go Search Assist
    Judge
    Judge
    Conversely non-autistic meetup groups...participate at your own risk.
    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    The problem is I can't find any in person autistic groups that are level 1 mild autism. So I look for similar groups. I got lucky with three and a midtown church center with leaders knowing autistic people, which is why they took my meltdowns.
    Tony Ramirez
    I now have a steady trauma and anger management therapist. Hope for the best for my mental health.
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    Aspychata
    Aspychata
    Maybe you will finally get some great therapy. Make sure to ask questions if you don't understand. :)
    AprilR
    AprilR
    I hope it helps you.
    S
    Steelbookcollector217
    and i apologize if this is an uncomfortable topic, but i hope you have a serious discussion with your folks regarding your future, future in the sense of being able to support yourself after your folks are gone, as in, obviously this applies to everyone, none of our folks are gonna be around forever, since i doubt collecting disability for the rest of your life would be enough to support yourself.
    Tony Ramirez
    A woman I meet in August actually wants to get a coffee with me this week and hangout. I accepted.
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    Aspychata
    Aspychata
    Hey, that's cool. Just stay low-key. It's just a coffee, not anything else. Think of some conversation topics that are interesting, not about mom and dad. Maybe memorize a silly joke, talk about something interesting that happened to you, and make sure to ask questions about her. That is a great way to start. No matter what happens, she asked you out, don't forget that. May you have many more coffee dates.
    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    I took it snails pace messaging her actually waiting over 2 weeks between communicating last one was over 2 weeks she got back to me today. Meds calming me down.
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    Steelbookcollector217
    well thats good, if you are content with that only, then more power to you
    Tony Ramirez
    How do you trust people when every so-called friend's single person you knew backstabbed you, left you in the past?
    Judge
    Judge
    Trust should be earned. Never simply given.

    "Shame me once, shame on you. Shame me twice, shame on me."
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