I'm white. I had 0% success in getting a date. I can only get solo hangouts with men which sucks and have long conversations with married women who care to listen too me.
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Tony Ramirez
KevinMao133
@Steelbookcollector217 forgot the link but I googled it
Dating as a person of color. Dating as an autistic person
I will send you the link if I find it
Dating as a person of color. Dating as an autistic person
I will send you the link if I find it
Aspychata
Dating can suck for anyone. I end up usually disappointed.
Markness
I struggle largely because I live in the Bible Belt and women here generally want men who fit the mold of being a “Christian Alpha Male.” It’s extremely brutal and discouraging. Even when I identified as a Christian, that wasn’t good enough because I wasn’t an iron pumping and loud male.
I have two Christian friends who are White men and they don’t have girlfriends because they aren’t considered “Alpha Males.”
I have two Christian friends who are White men and they don’t have girlfriends because they aren’t considered “Alpha Males.”