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VictorR
Forgiveness is a personal choice, and certainly if you do not wish to, it is your choice, but you may find that to forgive (but not forget) allows you to move on beyond a sad and/or painful past and to look more optimistically towards the future.

Cryptid
Cryptid
Report whoever has wronged you to the moderators. That’s why they’re here.

No excuses. Just do it.
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Misty Avich
If they have never apologised or showed any sort of regret then why should you have to forgive them?
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marc_101
You don't have to forgive, but holding resentments will only hurt yourself in the long run.
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thejuice
When you choose to be a victim you become your own oppressor
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thejuice
@Misty Avich by forgiving you're not accepting the harm, you are choosing to let go, to lighten the load as a gift to yourself with the freedom it brings. And yes I'm a hypocrite.
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Misty Avich
I like to forgive but if they carry on bullying me then I won't
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