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Gerontius
Gerontius
Sexy is in the loins of the beholder.

I'm dating someone who's broke, autistic, and disabled, but I've never been more interested in being in love! She's fantastic. And she said she was going to give up too.
tree
tree
Most American women aren't worth it?
Aren't worth what, any magnanimous offer he might make to allow them to consort with him?

Plus, he figures he's such a loser (he doesn't put it that way, he claims the worthless ones are the women)
that the only way he could attract any feminine attention is if he was encased in hundred dollar bills?
Interesting projection.

You're friends with him, why?
Markness
Markness
@tree He’s anti-feminist and a champion of “traditional values.” The only things he clashes with “traditionalists” on are video games, anime, manga, and rock music.

We used to be in an autism support group. I am friends with him because we can actually have conversations even if we don’t always agree on topics.
tree
tree
He really sounds unpleasant to be around.
Crossbreed
Crossbreed
He is pitching the incel mantra. Don't buy it. If you can care for a wife (and it shows), you can attract a wife.
The only worthwhile thing he offered was to stop looking; that is, stop striving.
I found my wife when I stopped looking for her.
Gerontius
Gerontius
Incels are not going to be good friends for you, Markness, and I think you should go prove him wrong.
Aspychata
Aspychata
I agree. When you stop looking, you send out a better energy.
Markness
Markness
@Aspychata How? My psyche just can’t seem to understand why. If you don’t seek out a martial arts dojo, you won’t learn martial arts. How is not looking for love going to make it come to me?
tree
tree
Love is within your capacity.
Show some.
Direct love towards others.
This "looking for love" thing.....you're facing the wrong direction.
Aspychata
Aspychata
You mentioned a good point. It's just that Eastern philosophy says the harder we look for something, the more obscure it becomes. If you become involved in your life and living fully, that you emit a healthier energy and attract a better person to you.
Aspychata
Aspychata
The one time l went online on a dating site, l was just hoping to find a friend. I wasn't looking for anything else. I had one guy that wanted to get serious with me. And l had to back away. Because l wasn't at that point in my life.
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