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tree
You know some ignorant people, don't you?
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Luca
I'm pretty sure I have heard of people who became fathers in their 60s or 70s. You're in your 30s. You're good lol
Tony Ramirez
Tony Ramirez
I heard that men's sperm is not affected by age. It is womans ovaries that degrade when in their 40's or 50's. That is why you got so many famous old men marry young woman with healthy kids.
tree
tree
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Slime_Punk
You can still live a happy life without kids anyway. More money and time for yourself, lol
Markness
Markness
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Slime_Punk
Call it a joke if you want, but it's actually my life. I wasn't trying to offend you by talking about my lifestyle choices, but I'll make it a point to cease communication with you in an attempt to keep the peace
tree
tree
I didn't think it was a joke.
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Luca
It wasn’t a joke, and my life is actually enjoyable that way too. Some of my friends have kids and they never have a moment to themselves, and sometimes it’s me who ends up watching their kids. I love kids but I prefer having time for myself, and financial stability.
Markness
Markness
@Luca I’ve had people use the same reasoning to tell me to not have a girlfriend and I’ve been told by my mother I would be a terrible father.
tree
tree
I don't see that this is "the same reasoning." Looks different, to me.
Markness
Markness
@tree I’ve actually been told that not having a romantic relationship would save me money and that I would be “free.”
tree
tree
Yes, you've mentioned that.
Markness
Markness
@tree But how does it differ?
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Luca
I'm not telling you "not to" have kids or a girlfriend. I was just saying that it works for me to not have kids. Or a boyfriend. I don't think anyone is telling you that you can't or shouldn't.
Tony Ramirez
Tony Ramirez
I want a wife and kids or even just a girlfriend but the girls that notice me are already married, boyfriend or single by choice. The rest of the single girls don't give me the time of day.
Markness
Markness
@Luca There are some here who have indeed said they don’t want me to have a relationship and hope I’ll never have children.
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