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Gerontius
Gerontius
When in doubt do without.
I'm currently having the same problem but different. Girls show up; we go on dates; something odd comes up. I 'attract' a decidedly more conservative type.
At this point I'd be happy to voluntarily choose a single life. We'll see.
Gerontius
Gerontius
There's a girl hanging round here & I rather like her, and she likes me. But I don't know if it's a good idea to get serious. Takes a ton of time to figure out & commit.
These days commitment is tougher as people don't know how to make friends.
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Luca
@Gerontius I have ended up attracting men who were way too conservative too or just had problematic personalities. I really like “When in doubt, go without.” That’s exactly what I do. I have no negative feelings about being single, even if it’s permanent.
Markness
Markness
I don’t even get dates. I either get told “I am too busy.” or I see the women already with a boyfriend/get told by them they have a boyfriend.
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Luca
I don’t think it’s because you’re doing anything wrong… I don’t date women so I don’t know, but I think they tend to back away from relationship stuff more. Most of the men who “liked” me were abusive and using me for sex. They didn’t even bother to use the right pronouns. That’s why I would much rather go without.
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Luca
Oh, and I’ve never been in an actual relationship either lol. Forgot to mention that part! :p
Markness
Markness
Some people have actually suggested I seek hook ups instead of dating and I find that suggestion ridiculous. I can’t even get a coffee date! How am I going to get a hook up if I am that socially inept?!?
Markness
Markness
Why haven’t you been in a relationship?
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