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Recent content by VioletHaze_03

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    Need help from Aspies/ people with HFA in college

    just dm me. if you want my email or something, i'd be glad to share it there. I'm actually in university now and it's going great. hope I can help.
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    I am going to a posh "Ball" in about 2 weeks, should I learn Ballroom Dancing?

    I don't think its that big of a deal, it will only be a one time thing, right? I can't dance for the life of me either, but i was taught one ballroom dance step by a friend, also an aspie (That's how you know it's easy :p) Google the box step, its the basic set of steps for most ballroom dances...
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    Romance and feeling romantic

    I think the most "romantic" moment i've ever had with someone is when me and my guy-friend text each other about whatever. I never knew someone could get flustered through text, but i guess it's possible :p. Anyway, i feel romance as having a strong bond and level of trust with someone, and...
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    Would you Rather Date a...

    It really depends on the person. Every aspie is different, and no matter what condition a person has, they're still a person. Personally, i perfer spending time around NTs more than i do aspies (i know it's an unpopular opinion.) I find NTs are far more perceptive, and much better at reading...
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    EQ test

    I have an eq of 7. Out of 80. I am honestly not too shocked, and i don't really care. Emotional intelligence was never something that i found important, and it's not something i ever will. If it happens, cool, but i just never really cared
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    Anyone else sick of people only coming here to get back their relationships?

    Honestly it's really annoying. It's like people just come here to complain about their relationships, vent about people having some possibly autistic traits and then expect us to toss some magic autie dust on them and "fix" their partner. Autistics aren't like dogs. You can't just train the bad...
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    Does anyone here with Autism or their children have difficulty learning dances?

    I find this to be a very weird question, since i both enjoy dance but suck at it. It's hard for me to keep time with everyone else while still doing exactly what i'm told, i rarely know a routine off by heart, sometimes i do a quarter of it well. My parents have said that you could always pick...
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    Need help from Aspies/ people with HFA in college

    I'm going to university this coming year, but i'd still be happy to share my experience. Would that be okay?
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    SOS My ASD boyfriend won't propose

    Are you really sure you need a wedding and all that? Honestly, it's really expensive and divorce rates are going way up. Maybe if it's too nerveracking for him you could try common law marriage. It's what my parents did and they've never even thought about splitting. Before that, my mom did...
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    Why do non-autistics lie to their kids?

    My mom was brutally honest with me. If my artwork was crap, she'd tell me it was crap. When i tried to power through my anxiety and perform for a singing contest that i practiced for two months, her only comment was that i was "off key." When i bawled my eyes out, she told me how great it was to...
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    Share about your ASD-I want to understand

    You don't need to go "by the book" it's a mistake i made when i searched for a possible explanation. I am hyper-verbal, which means i have a heightened vocabulary and use metaphors in my speech all the time, i also have a strong sense of sarcasm and humor. I can make eye contact and hold a...
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    Do you fancy or crush on fictional Characters?

    I honestly don't know how to answer this but i'll try. I've never had a crush on a fictional character, but i've definitely had squishes (platonic crush) on certain characters, all from anime of course: - France and Russia from hetalia - karma akebane from asassination classroom - and most...
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    How long did your Aspergers diagnosis take?

    I never waited for anything because no one could tell what was wrong with me. I fit the bill for an obscure learning disability that doesn't really exist, but there were far more things that it didn't cover. I've never recieved an actual diagnosis because doctors don't agree i'm on the spectrum...
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    Diagnosis ruined my life

    It really depends, some employers actually want autistics. I know i actually got into a policing initiative because my high functioning autism gives me a unique perspective on a life, and my bluntness provides a unconventional sense of humor. If i was neurotypical, i'd be just another basic...
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    Comment by 'VioletHaze_03' in 'This aspie woman and her present friendships'

    I don't mean this in a rude way, it's kind of inspiring that you don't care about having friends anymore, not a lot of adults i talk to think that way. My mom constantly pressures me to do anything to make new friends (especially with boys) and it's really annoying. I wish more people could...
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