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Recent content by Verdandi

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    Aspies and social life

    I find it hard to believe since he repeatedly told me he loved me but he is not able cope with emotions any more. At least not now. Moreover, he does text me without me taking initiative. If it is true that he loved me, he could not switch off a feeling like that in such a short time.
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    Aspies and social life

    I need to figure smth out. My Aspie ex accused me of not being able to have a social life because of me. This given the fact that I never told him to not do things, on the contrary, I more than respected his need for independence and going against my own wishes to join him sometimes at a party...
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    Aspie boyfriend left me...

    Some days ago we accidentally met on the cycling lane. We talked for like 2 minutes and then he was gone. Full speed. He texted me telling me he didn't know what to say to me. I have never felt a heartbreak like this my entire life.
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    Help me understand

    I get what you're saying but...I did not expect him to do a lot for me in the first place. I think the only thing I expected is for him to try to be more open and communicate more about his needs instead of just breaking off. I do have my own things going on, he knew that very well and we...
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    Help me understand

    But I haven't forced him into anything...on the contrary, I was the one constantly adapting to his needs. I gave him space, I never told him not to do something. I was and still am very attached to him, that is true, but I'm doing my best to control it :(
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    Help me understand

    I'm getting through this, but over him...improbable. I do not think it is possible to get over someone who meant this much for you. I will leave him alone, as he wishes, and we'll see what happens. I have to deal with my own depression as well. :( Every day is a struggle to find a little joy in...
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    Help me understand

    Just like that? You love someone and then all of a sudden you decide you don't want then any more?
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    Help me understand

    I needed the answers for my peace of mind. Apparently I can't get that either.
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    Help me understand

    I tried talking to my ex so as to get some insight into his thoughts, but to no avail. I told him I would like to understand how he could go from all that seemingly deep affection to treating me like dirt and making me feel like a stranger; I tried inquiring about what made him uncomfortable; I...
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    Can I win him back?

    What I'm saying is that I won't give up hoping. This thing with him left too deep of a mark for me and I am pretty sure I will never get over him. Yes, I am forceful in my feelings (which I am expressing here), but I am struggling to back off in real life.
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    Can I win him back?

    One of the reasons I've been writing here is that the "normal" things people do after a breakup have no effect whatsoever in my case. Mainly because I know he tried and he loved me. I am crazy for clinging to a shred of hope, I know. Yeah, everyone tells me to move on too, but it's not going to...
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    Can I win him back?

    I tried explaining it to him in writing. He doesn't do well with overt displays of emotion so I wrote to him about my perception of the situation, pointing out the positive and the negative. He told me he doesn't know what to say and what I want him to do.
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    Can I win him back?

    I think it's too soon to tell him that I'd like to start over again...I should wait a little longer so he cools down.
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    Can I win him back?

    I'm afraid he'll forget about me completely.
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    Can I win him back?

    I did go away...nevertheless we talk sometimes on facebook. I have a better grasp of his condition now and would work more on communication but...I don't know what he wants. He may be immature too, he's 25, I'm 26.
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