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Tony Ramirez

Tony Ramirez

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  • Tony Ramirez
    I found out that there are plenty of single women out there, they just don't live in new york city. The live in other states and countries.
    MildredHubble
    MildredHubble
    Perhaps it's an opportunity to "cast your net wider"? Maybe if you get talking to the right person you might be able to come to a compromise and meet in the middle on dates. Maybe you could chat a lot online until you get to know eachother. It might all be a bit more relaxed than the usual dating routine?
    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    I was wrong as usual. It's my tunnel vision thinking mentality.
    Tony Ramirez
    I know I am obsessed with women and I don't know how to stop.
    Xinyta
    Xinyta
    Probably won't help but, in the immortal words of Emperor Palpitine/Darth Sidious: "Do it."
    tree
    tree
    S
    Steelbookcollector217
    Cases like Tony just angered me and depressed me because it's a reminder that forever alone people are male dominated cases
    Tony Ramirez
    Don't watch this video if you're a straight single man or you will get ticked off. I turned out off halfway. It's not true. I have not meet one women who ever said that too me. All the ones that approached and talked to me or I approached them all said they have husbands or boyfriends.
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    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    I had to turn that video off. It really bothered me what she said. Really every woman that talked to me said husband or boyfriend so many damn times to my face I am so damn sick of hearing it. I had to hold a calm face but I wanted to tell them off so bad, bolt but I remained calm and stayed.
    Z
    Zain
    I despise people who farm lonely men for revenue and attention.
    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    It still never happened to me and I would welcome it but all I encounter are taken women everywhere.
    Tony Ramirez
    New York City sucks for meeting single women. They just ain't many out there.
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    tree
    tree
    "Happy" is a feeling.
    I was asking in what way would your actions be different.

    What would you do differently if you were happy, in a situation?
    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    Sorry, probably try to socialize more if I understand the question.
    tree
    tree
    You feel discouraged and angry when it looks like everybody in the crowd has a partner.

    But if you were in a positive mood, you might act more outgoing.
    Tony Ramirez
    Anyone can believe that a woman can hate a guy then eventually fall madly in love with must be watching a lot of pure Hollywood fiction. Not in the real world. Not in this lifetime.
    tree
    tree
    One of the most common popular plots in fiction.
    The conflict makes the story.
    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    And it's so far-fetched it almost never happens in real life. I sometimes still believe it which is also why I still go after girls who ignored me.
    Judge
    Judge
    That's exactly how I came to be. My mother initially thought my father was a well-educated, conceited jerk. But when he became and officer and a gentleman it all changed over time. Art imitating life?

    Way to go, Mom & Dad. :cool:

    Tony Ramirez
    Sorry about being so negative lately but it really hurt last week when that woman approached me and I thought the conversation was going good until she mentioned a boyfriend then showed me his picture. That really hurt me.
    tree
    tree
    You let it hurt you.
    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    It still hurts bad. It's even worse now being around couples. I'm at church now and it's torture. I'm about to lose it.
    Tony Ramirez
    I should have died during my emergency surgery when I was two years old instead of suffering these 44 years after.
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    Aspiecats
    Have you identified what it is you want out of having a relationship? Even with your sad picture there you don't appear to be unattractive. Believe me a partner isn't the answer, unless you know yourself. There are so many people out there looking for companions but can't find the right fit. That is why you need to know what you want from them and what they want from you.
    S
    Steelbookcollector217
    What was the emergency surgery for?
    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    Could not breathe.
    Tony Ramirez
    I'm at the point of my life where I have a much better chance of winning the lottery then finding a partner.
    A
    Aspiecats
    Then play the lottery, it may be the answer if you win. I have found that many partner options come available if they see $ signs.
    Tony Ramirez
    I'm getting to the tipping point in telling people I meet what I really think of them.
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    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    No it would be negative for all the payback of them rubbing in their happiness in my face.
    tree
    tree
    This idea that people are intentionally torturing you by being happy-----
    please discuss this with your therapist.
    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    I am going to. I will try.
    Tony Ramirez
    There is a 1% chance the next new woman I talk to around my age or younger I have a actual conversation with will be single.
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    tree
    tree
    So you've got each encounter written down and tabulated?
    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    I use to keep a anxiety scale and 9 and 10s were encounters with single women but many turned into 5s which is couples and 5M married, 5BF boyfriend. So after awhile I stopped doing it.
    tree
    tree
    Yes, I remember that.

    The problem with that personal score keeping/your research method is
    the size of the sample is too small.
    Tony Ramirez
    I been so sick the past few days I have not been able to go to church or yoga. Won't be able to see my therapist tomorrow or hang out with my lifegroup for dinner tomorrow. When I get better everything will be closed and people will be away.
    tree
    tree
    Can't do therapist session on the phone?
    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    I hope they can do it on the phone if they still do it otherwise I will have to see her on Friday
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