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Recent content by tommynewage

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    I can't let go of wanting a girlfriend

    I had a woman social media “friend” tell me I was a bad person. She didn’t even really know me. She blocked me. I internalized it because I don’t like when people hate me especially when they don’t know me. People told me that I should just get over it, like “poof. Gone”. I get blocked a lot...
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    Getting back up after falling hard

    I posted this as a reply to another post but wanted to start a new thread if that’s ok. I wasted the past decade of my life. I’m just now getting slowly back to my feet having nearly drowned myself in alcohol and depression. I got into financial trouble, lost my girlfriend of 6 years who I...
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    Wasted my 30's.

    I identify totally. I wasted the past decade of my life. I’m just now getting slowly back to my feet having nearly drowned myself in alcohol and depression. I got into financial trouble, lost my girlfriend of 6 years who I thought loved me but she didn’t. She broke up with me after I was...
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    Hi I’m new

    Any time frame but I have a kind of romantic love for the 19th century. I like studying gender because it was an area of history I didn’t know much about and it’s so conspicuous in the news in America these days. I really wanted to educate myself and it’s interesting how fluid and flux gender...
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    Hi I’m new

    I was in a phase when I was reading a lot of medical history. Now I’m in a history of gender and sexuality phase. Social history is definitely my jam.
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    Hi I’m new

    Hi, thanks. My special interests change a lot, not my gender. I only have a year of college left to do and my major is history with a minor in philosophy. I’ve been to the U.K. and I loved it. I was in London and Cambridge. This was in 2006. I really liked Cambridge. It seemed very peaceful and...
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    Hi I’m new

    Hi, I’m Stephen. Glad to be here. I was diagnosed with Asperger’s Syndrome by the TEACCH organization in 2004. I play piano, love history and philosophy. I’ve been reading a lot on the subject of gender. It is my ‘special interest’ now. Mine change a lot. I also collect US coins and old baseball...
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