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Recent content by Tiffany

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    Breaking Rules You're Unaware Of

    For years, I exhausted people with my neediness, needing to talk, needing company, just needing. I’ve learned that even well meaning friends can be overwhelmed and wrung out so to speak. These days I have a tendency to withdraw before that happens. I don’t ask for help much. It’s lonely a lot...
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    Realizations and Struggles Masquerading as NT

    I’ve recently accepted the notion that I probably have Aspergers. I think on some level I’ve known a long time but denied it as it felt like a stigma I didn’t want to carry. This blog is really just notations and questions as I explore who I really am, for real this time without the coping...
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    The Love & Dating thread.

    Should say ‘stress’ not ‘dress’.
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    The Love & Dating thread.

    My younger aspie ex recently broke up with me as he’s had major life changes and isn’t dealing with the dress well. He said he wants to be friends, I agreed although I felt somewhat heart broken. Every time we’re together, he wants to be physical or cries because he’s lonely and unhappy. Being...
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    Online dating: how has it worked for you?

    Online dating has been haphazard at best. I’ve met a handful of men that seem to like me online and apparently think I’m weird in person. I’m never quite sure what I’ve done wrong but often online people are looking for hooking up quick or even before meeting and that’s tough for me. I’m not...
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    "Funny" moment today.

    You’re right. My ex used to crank his music up super loud in our house and I used to think ‘I’m going to lose my freaking mind’ it would actually make me feel ill. I love music but sometimes when I can’t escape it can make me feel nuts inside.
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    "Funny" moment today.

    My mother had a very public career and punished me consistently. While I think it contributed to a mild case of PTSD, it definitely forced me to learn and mimic neurotypical social styles. I think it made me a better actress but I sometimes feel resentful of the time spent grounded because I...
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