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Recent content by tapian

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    THANKS TO EVERYONE

    Well it turns out everyone on here was right and I was finally pushed to my limit today. I am single again. I gave him the ultimatum and he said I was being unfair so we are separated. thanks all for the feedback. Im hurting because of how indifferent he was about the breakup but I will be...
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    At my wits end

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    At my wits end

    I think this will be my last cryout on here as me and my fiancé are at our breaking point. At least I have had my fill. We have been looking for a house together but have only been looking for a couple weeks and mainly online. Well we were supposed to look at some houses today but I find out two...
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    having second thoughts about being engaged to an aspie guy

    Hi all I am really struggling right now. Havent been on here in awhile thought my relationship was pretty well in hand for a while and I was on the road to being happy but things have taken a turn for the worse...I have been feeling like I cant trust him lately and I know thats unusual for an...
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    Any guys have trouble finishing during intimacy?

    He was on Zoloft and suboxone for a couple years but he has been off those for over a year. So it should be well out of his system by now. I am getting tired of being intimate because that part is really exasperating.
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    Feeling nonexistent

    Another problem I have encountered many many times happened to me tonight. I feel like I am not in the room even when I am siting next to him. We went to the movies and as always he was so into the movie that he barely payed any attention to me. He would make jokes and commentary but no...
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    Kissing

    I wanted to know if there are any NT's dating Aspies on here who have confronted the problem of awkward kisses from your Aspie partner. Mine kisses me very mechanically almost as if he is trying too hard to convince me that he is into it. My previous bf was an extremely passionate kisser which...
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    Foreplay

    Well if he cared he would make more of an attempt. It's not as if I deny him on the rare occasion that he does try. I don't know I have been with him three years it obviously isn't going to change. I used to hold on to the hope that it was due the fact that he used to do drugs and that could...
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    Foreplay

    tryingtoregister thanks for the feedback it just seems so wrong to have to ask for sex.........as you said you are men shouldn't it come naturally? I mean I am beginning to think he could be in denial of being gay or something I mean not to be conceited but most guys would kill to get me in bed...
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    Foreplay

    well I think you are right about everything you said. curious what you mean about different dates. It is hard to get him to do anything out of the ordinary and no matter how many times I have begged him to come up with something spontaneous for us he never can come up with anything the only...
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    Foreplay

    I just don't know what to do I feel guilty because I have only been with two guys intimately in my life and I miss the spark that my other relationship had. I find myself wondering what it would be like with someone else. I am wondering if it is even fair of me to be with him when I am having...
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    Foreplay

    Hmm good suggestion. He is very bad at connecting with me emotionally or romantically. For instance almost every time we get close together- for instance our faces get close and I am going for a kiss or something he will use comedy to avert the moment by closing one eye laughing and saying "hey...
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    Foreplay

    any suggestions on how to approach him about it without making him feel like he sucks in bed?
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    Foreplay

    Does anyone have trouble with foreplay? In other words is anybody in a relationship with an Aspie who has a hard time warming up to sex? My boyfriend doesn't seem interested in sex very often but when he is its very mechanical and direct. No romance. Very frustrating. Feedback?
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    Cats-

    spinning compass obviously you believe that animals should be on a higher level than your signifigant other. When we first talked online he talked about putting the cats outside so I gave it a chance. It hasn't happened and I am beginning to think he doesn't care enough about me to make...
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