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Recent content by Snowflake

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    NT confused about boyfriend: Aspergers, OCD, narcissism or something else?

    I know that's such a simple question to ask... I haven't asked because he may be on the fence and I don't want to push him into a decision (given he asked for a 'break'). I appreciate the insight from this board. What a wonderful community you have all created :). Thank you.
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    NT confused about boyfriend: Aspergers, OCD, narcissism or something else?

    Thank you for your reply. I looked up that personality disorder. Not sure if that fits him though. I recall him telling me know that he was diagnosed with OCD! I think there's something else going on as well though, which is not unusual it seems. As for rekindling the relationship, it's been...
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    NT confused about boyfriend: Aspergers, OCD, narcissism or something else?

    Thank you for replying. I agree that these are red flags. It didn't start this way. He was very serious about me initially and very devoted. He has become increasingly less committed to our relationship as my 'faults' have emerged. I am not perfect it seems! Thank you for your honest perspective :)
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    NT confused about boyfriend: Aspergers, OCD, narcissism or something else?

    Hi :) Thank you for your reply. I agree that he likely has several factors that shape his behavior. I am looking for answers and I'm not even sure he knows. He has mentioned having OCD a few times but then retracted that statement and won't talk about it. It could be OCD with other factors. I'm...
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    NT confused about boyfriend: Aspergers, OCD, narcissism or something else?

    Thank you for your reply and your helpful question. My answer is dependent on what his need for space is about. If it's because he has stresses in his own life and lacks capacity to respond to me then A. He is very good to me and I want to be supportive of him. Otherwise, it's B because then...
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    NT confused about boyfriend: Aspergers, OCD, narcissism or something else?

    Thank you for your reply. I appreciate the insight and the links you attached. I will take a look at them. I have two motivations for trying to figure out what's going on. Firstly, I want to be supportive of him. He is very good to me and worth it. Secondly, I am conflicted about whether this is...
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    Hello :)

    Thank you for your welcome. I'm really not sure if my boyfriend has Aspergers. I am trying to figure out what's going on or I will assume my relationship with him is just over (I just posted on the main board). I am happy for you that you have a good marriage :)
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    NT confused about boyfriend: Aspergers, OCD, narcissism or something else?

    Hello everyone :) I've been in a relationship for 1 1/2 years with my boyfriend. I have observed the following behaviors: - He is incredibly clean and well organized. - He writes detailed lists. - He plans very carefully. - He over thinks. - He has lied to me at times. We recently had some...
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    Hello :)

    Hello everyone - just wanting to introduce myself. I'm an NT seeking more information to support my boyfriend more.
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