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Recent content by ProfessorOptics

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    Why do some girls hardly initiate?

    Yea, they broke up lol well he broke up with her.
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    Why do some girls hardly initiate?

    I think I'm going to send her one last message for the day when she's done with her classes, saying: "okay, I hate texts/phones, too much miscommunication and grey area for me to tolerate . I'd rather just see you in person whenever possible, but I know you are very busy at the moment and I...
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    Why do some girls hardly initiate?

    So does that mean it's incorrect for a male to chase after a female? No doubt. We aren't in a relationship, so she can see and talk to whomever she pleases. We met through a friend, actually, she was dating a friend, and when they broke up she came to me. It was known from the start that there...
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    Why do some girls hardly initiate?

    I don't know. I'd like her to initiate more, and not leave me to do all the initiating. We have known each other for just over a month, she is aware that I'm an Aspie, and I have to remind myself everyday that we are not in a relationship. I'm worried that she may not fully realize what it...
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    Why do some girls hardly initiate?

    Why do some girls hardly initiate with texts, but will go out with you, kiss you and show signs of attraction when together with you? Is it an indication of low attraction, interest, or is it due to shyness, low esteem?
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    Unsure if she is still attracted to me... or just being nice.

    Well she visited me yesterday, had to talk about some stuff with her because people were calling her things behind her back, and even to her face. She blocked me the night before because she thought I believed what those people were saying, and I wanted to tell her straight never to assume that...
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    Unsure if she is still attracted to me... or just being nice.

    Yes, though I don't think she fully understands what that means lol at least relationship wise.
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    Unsure if she is still attracted to me... or just being nice.

    He broke up with her lol she told me herself. I should also mention, he isn't my best friend, he's my brothers best friend. Why do I still have my doubts though?
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    Unsure if she is still attracted to me... or just being nice.

    she's writing exams atm, so I'm not sure when I'll next get to see her.
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    Unsure if she is still attracted to me... or just being nice.

    I don't mind asking her in person, though she is busy with exams, I'll be calling her later tonight, hopefully. She doesnt text me so much, so texting game is leaving me uncertain. Thinking of sending her a text asking if the attraction between us has died.
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    Unsure if she is still attracted to me... or just being nice.

    Not as far as I know. how do I ask though? text, call, in person? What do I say?
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    Unsure if she is still attracted to me... or just being nice.

    I'm attracted to this girl I've known for about a month now. Right now, however, I can't help feel if she is still attracted to me or not. When we're together, she calls me over, talks to me, touches me, watches me and what not. She even eyes other girls I'm talking to (my friends gf for...
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    In a very difficult, romantic situation.

    Yea, I basically told her that. Told her I can't be around her while she is with someone else; walked away. My friend knows most of it, and even said if things don't work out between them, i'll have his blessing should we both still desire that. But honestly, he is more my brother's friend than...
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    In a very difficult, romantic situation.

    everything.
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    In a very difficult, romantic situation.

    I give up...
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