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Recent content by PerditaX

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    Reconciliation even possible?

    Thank you, but I will not write him an apology letter as I’ve already apologised. And if he’s not willing to talk to me anyway I will not come crawling and beg him for forgiveness again. I think I made it clear to him where I stand and that I love him. I think the only thing for me is to leave...
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    Reconciliation even possible?

    I see what you mean, the most recent situation was not anger but sadness and anxiety. But I guess it doesn’t matter, I could have scared him away either way
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    Reconciliation even possible?

    I understand, I always put blame on myself if someone is upset with me or in general, but I also know that things can be said if things get heated, and however upset or scared I get I just need some time to reassess the situation. Might be that he can’t handle that, but with discussion and...
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    Reconciliation even possible?

    I don't really understand. It was not as if drama was a big thing in our relationship and I did apologize for everything, and at the same time explaining that I never expect him to take any responsibility in my emotions, that they were for me to handle. That I only need to calm myself down if my...
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    Reconciliation even possible?

    thank you for your input, it really helps me in my time of need. I guess I just have to move forward and see if he ever reevaluates his decision. I think I need to prove to him also that I have the strength to move on without him and are capable of living with or without him, which I am. It’s...
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    Reconciliation even possible?

    How did you two meet? We met via dating app Who initiated the bf/gf relationship? Friends first? We both did, no dating from start How long had you two been together? 7months Had he shown or said much care/love for you prior to the breakup? Yes, he always showed affection, not verbally as much...
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    Reconciliation even possible?

    I'm sorry it played out like that for you :( I'm just hoping to rekindle something with my guy, I hope he like me can see that what we had is worth working on, with a little space away from the stressful few days.
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    Reconciliation even possible?

    I think it might be that he thinks I'm looking for affirmation a bit too much, but he knows I'm working on it with my therapist and that I've gotten loads better. I've always been open with communication and compromise around how often we see each other and how to respect each other. How did...
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    Reconciliation even possible?

    Hi all I have a little problem that i would like your opinion on My aspie boyfriend broke up with me a week ago following an intense night where i had an anxiety attack. I might have said things I didn’t mean, but I don’t think I said anything too bad. During an anxiety attack i often forget...
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