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Recent content by Pbc

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    Will she ever come back?

    the letter explained a lot about how we could make things work if she wanted in the future, so I guess it’s just letting her go through the process. Hard not to take it to heart either, the big thing for me I guess is that I don’t understand what she personally is going through and I wish I...
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    Will she ever come back?

    Hey all, so some of you may have saw my other post from a few weeks back. The TLDR is that my Aspie ex gf broke up with me and I was looking for answers and my options to try and get her back. A confusing breakup and I need help Well I decided to send her a letter, it has been almost two months...
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    A confusing breakup and I need help

    Thanks both. Im going to let her go for now. We still have each other on social media's and it was an amicable breakup, so ill just have to hope its not the end and she reaches out when she is ready. If not then hopefully things after a long time mean we can at least talk. Thanks all for taking...
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    A confusing breakup and I need help

    I guess so, im gonna leave her alone for now. The part of this that is eating me up is that I know she genuinely wanted us to work before the breakup even though she needed space at the time. Im just worried that she wont ever come back because she doesn't think things can be different
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    A confusing breakup and I need help

    I want to do that, my worry is that she might not come around if she doesn't know im ok coexisiting with a different dynamic. Right now my plan is to give her at least another month away before trying to send a letter. The general consensus im getting here is that might be a bad idea though
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    A confusing breakup and I need help

    Thats what im doing right now, its been almost a month. Im comitted for another month at least... I just dont want to lose her forever and I feel like if I stay silent forever she might not come around if I dont let her know things can be different
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    A confusing breakup and I need help

    I get that, but I cant help but feel like I made mistakes that led to this... She initiated the breakup so I agree, but part of me feels like if I address the fact I made mistakes and know what to do differently that might help?
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    A confusing breakup and I need help

    I appreciate your responses everyone. I guess to add. She did say when she originally asked for space she wanted this long term, which is why im having a hard time moving on. Because even through needing space and being overwhelmed she wanted to carry on I know things wont be the same, I...
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    A confusing breakup and I need help

    Hello all, I was hoping for some help understanding my situation. I am NT and my ex girlfriend is an Aspie. We were in a relationship for about 3 months and honestly it was the most magical thing, we got on like a house on fire. Met each other’s families, spent so much time together and just...
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