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Recent content by neroren41

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    Not understanding social rank

    I typically tend not to as well, except when it started to affect my ability to do my job and do it well. Unfortunately the cliquey people were the people who also held some power over assignments and scheduling. It became apparent I was being screwed with. It definitely became impossible to ignore.
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    Not understanding social rank

    No you are not off the mark, I just think some of the good employee questioning was self-inflicted, it was a (wrong) conclusion that I came to to help me try and identify WHY I was such a target.
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    Not understanding social rank

    I had someone there I considered a "work friend" who told me some of the stuff going on that I didn't even know about (gossip behind closed doors). Only after I begged to know. Apparently, a lot of it started when my supervisor wrongfully shared my productivity with some of the cliquey...
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    Not understanding social rank

    Can you explain what you mean? I'm sorry if I'm being obtuse.
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    Not understanding social rank

    As do I. I would talk to people and be friendly with them even if others had deemed them low in rank also, for reasons I couldn't discern. And just because of that, apparently I joined them on the dartboard. In a professional setting I feel like it's important to at least try and get along and...
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    Not understanding social rank

    Unfortunately I'm 32 years old and only just coming to this conclusion now. It's not my first rodeo with bullies, but certainly the first time it's been amped up to a level where I had to leave due to my mental health. Like I said I understand not being part of the group and not making...
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    Not understanding social rank

    I'm posting this as a reflection of the last several months where I was basically bullied out of a job by some high ranking social people at work. I was the obvious target of some passive aggressive and also some blatant shows of disrespect, making my job and socializing/getting along with...
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