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Recent content by Marykate101

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    Any advice for a NT on this aspie behavior?

    Thank you for that. I'm starting to absorb the fact that there's a lot of baloney "out there" and I must learn to be more discerning about the source. If i come across that article again I am going to make a note of the site and author, and steer clear of any other "information" that they are...
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    Any advice for a NT on this aspie behavior?

    Thanks for explaining that to me. I appreciate your candor. While I was writing my original post, there was a faint red blinking light in a corner of my brain warning me that I was probably going to sound insulting and insensitive, but i charged into it anyway. So typical. I am grateful for the...
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    Any advice for a NT on this aspie behavior?

    Your response just reminded me of a time that I was asking him multiple questions about a completely different topic we were discussing. He finally said: I will try to answer your questions, but only if you can list them separately on their own, in order. That was pretty specific and concrete...
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    Any advice for a NT on this aspie behavior?

    Thank you. I agree with you that it's better to live a life as honestly and authentically as possible. I guess that is why I am always trying to drill down to the core of everything, to make sure it's real, and true. But i guess that doesn't always happen, that I get the real truth...
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    Any advice for a NT on this aspie behavior?

    Thank you so much for taking the time to consider my questions. I had tried to explain to him a couple of times via text, thinking that would be better for him than face to face, that I was confused about his actions. But I'm thinking I must have not been communicating myself in the right way...
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    Any advice for a NT on this aspie behavior?

    Sorry about that! I thought having the details would help. Like having the right pieces of a puzzle. I honestly didn't set out to be so confusing, In a nutshell I was wondering if anyone recognized his behavior from their own relationship experiences? And if anyone could shed any light on what...
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    Any advice for a NT on this aspie behavior?

    Thanks Tom. I appreciate your input. Clearly I over think to death every single thing that happens because I'm not really sure if something is what it seems to be. I am starting to realize that i am very insecure, and I guess I was looking for some kind of reassurance that he really did mean...
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    Any advice for a NT on this aspie behavior?

    Thank you for your response. It helps me to hear that. I realize that in many ways i am wrong, I just don't know what they are. If possible, could you please give me a specific example of what you are seeing as worrisome about my behavior?
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    Any advice for a NT on this aspie behavior?

    Hello to everyone again. I posted a “I'm a new member” post a couple of nights ago under the introduce yourself section. And I mentioned that I was going to have a couple of questions since I'm the NT and the man I'm involved with is most certainly an undiagnosed aspie. And all of this is new to...
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    Hello everyone, I am new here

    I have finally gotten a draft ready to post. Do i put it here or do I need to start a new topic, and if so, how exactly do i do that?? Thanks!
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    Hello everyone, I am new here

    Thank you so much to everyone for the warm welcome! I actually wasn't sure if anyone would respond so thank you for that and I look forward to hearing from you in regards to a couple of questions I would like to ask, because I am really stumped! I just have to finish mentally composing the first...
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    Hello everyone, I am new here

    I found this site while researching online for information about how to understand aspies. I'm not on the spectrum (an NT??) but am involved in a relationship with, I'm pretty sure, an undiagnosed male aspie. He has not led me to believe that he knows anything about Asperger's, in spite of his...
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