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Recent content by Lena_131309

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    How to develop relationship further?

    To be honest, it is difficult for me to say if this is a factor for him Alexej. I assume he has expienced so much criticism in his life that I do my best not to add my part to it. I am actually trying very hard to tell him that he is great or that he has done something great (if he does) to make...
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    How to develop relationship further?

    These are mostly his friends for work, so they usually go to places to have dinner, drinks (he is usually not drinking) and talk about work. When he meets them on the weekend he is usually going to their places or they come to his. Last weekend he planned to go to the seaside trip with his...
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    How to develop relationship further?

    Well, usually after the cinema we were going to his place, so I cannot judge that. I guess we both enjoy it very much. He was actually the one proposing those cinema dates, so my assumption is, he feels comfortable doing that.
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    How to develop relationship further?

    XXX
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    I need help with my relationship

    Well. It didn’t go as great as expected....I don’t think I can manage arguments with him properly. And I don’t know if I can manage this emotional roller coaster either. We had such a great evening yesterday. Meeting friends for dinner and a movie night, laughing and enjoying every minute of...
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    I need help with my relationship

    Haha, thank you! I wish :) Better don't learn from me, I am so not aware what I am doing so it is more luck that it works than anything else. And I understand you...Being in many relationships before and being used to men asking for my time, texting me first and initiating activities (no always...
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    I need help with my relationship

    Thank you very much for your answer Rasputin :) We are getting there and our communication is more and more open. We met last weekend for a very nice bbq with our friends and after spent great evening / night watching movies. He is getting more and more confident with his "relationship"...
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    I need help with my relationship

    Thank you very much Aspychata! :-) I would probably need full container of those pills ;-)
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    I need help with my relationship

    Thank you Alexej :)
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    I need help with my relationship

    All, I just wanted to say thank you (again) for your advise how to deal with our relationship, without your help I would definitely struggle more and most probably mess something up ;-) I have given him needed space (despite feeling a bit upset once he told me directly he needs his alone time...
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    I need help with my relationship

    I‘m sure you understand this much better than me :) my brain understands that but my soul is still struggling....I will learn (I hope), just need more time.
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    I need help with my relationship

    Hi Aspychata, thank you very much for you honest feedback and yes, I think I finally get something, still, there is a lot I still don’t get at all ;-) I don’t consider myself as dependent on him, I just got used to “our” routine (=our meetings) very much...Due to the fact that I see him every...
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    I need help with my relationship

    Hi Alexej :) thank you very much for your answer. Yesterday he wrote me that he wanted to do this “big sorting thing” and I actually asked him “So would you prefer some time alone this weekend to finish it or would you find some time to watch a movie”, and his reply was “This weekend I need...
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    I need help with my relationship

    I (NT) am in a relationship with Aspie boyfriend since 4 months. We are both working full time so, before the quarantine, we were usually seeing each other once per week (usually on the weekend). The whole lockdown had a very strong influence on him (he even admitted that it “hit him very hard”)...
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    I need help with my relationship

    Thank you so much again for your explanation, you don’t even expect how much it means to me...you explain everything so clearly that, for the first time since few days, I’m able to rest a bit my spinning mind and see the shapes more clearly in this foggy, foreign world to me. And don’t worry...
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