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Recent content by JM33

  1. J

    Do people have too high of expectations on me for my dating situation?

    For leaving or taking assets, since she is moving in with me soon, if she were to leave later.
  2. J

    Do people have too high of expectations on me for my dating situation?

    Oh okay thanks, and thank you for the input everyone! Well my parents keep telling me she is too high risk, because of her age, and having less money than me at her age, but do they have a point there? I have progressed much further with her so far, than any other attempt at a relationship, so...
  3. J

    Do people have too high of expectations on me for my dating situation?

    I'm autistic and feel that I am not as good at dating because of it and have had bad luck overall. I met a woman and connected really well with her and it turns out she is also autistic which explains why the connection and communication has been much better. But, some people I know do not...
  4. J

    How do you know if you are sexually compatible with a less experienced person?

    Oh I could do that, I just don't know what I would be looking for in such videos.
  5. J

    How do you know if you are sexually compatible with a less experienced person?

    It's been really good. This was the only thing I thought was lacking.
  6. J

    How do you know if you are sexually compatible with a less experienced person?

    Oh well she said before she not comfortable at the idea of watching videos and trying to emulate other people though.
  7. J

    How do you know if you are sexually compatible with a less experienced person?

    Oh okay thank you very much. Well she said she feels that I sexualize her during sex and she does not like that but how do you have sex with a person and get turned on, if you cannot sexualize the person, if that makes sense?
  8. J

    How do you know if you are sexually compatible with a less experienced person?

    Oh thank you very much for your input anyway! I am sorry you have only had negative experiences so far.
  9. J

    How do you know if you are sexually compatible with a less experienced person?

    She seems comfortable and consenting to it so far, it's just that I a wonder are sexually incompatible, if we are agreeing to do things that do not normally turn us on, to please the other person, even if comfortable, since comfortable still doesn't equate to turned on from it naturally in the...
  10. J

    How do you know if you are sexually compatible with a less experienced person?

    Okay thank you very much! I just had this conversation with her recently. She said she is willing to do what I like in bed, if I am willing to do what she likes, which I am. However, a part of me makes her feel guilty that I am asking to do things that are shall we say, kinkier, than what she...
  11. J

    How do you know if you are sexually compatible with a less experienced person?

    What do you mean by that though?
  12. J

    How do you know if you are sexually compatible with a less experienced person?

    Oh perhaps that is the case. But I haven't watched it for years and thought it was just me and what turns me on, unless I am likely wrong?
  13. J

    How do you know if you are sexually compatible with a less experienced person?

    No, why? I use to a few years ago, but I stopped in order to not be overstimulated.
  14. J

    How do you know if you are sexually compatible with a less experienced person?

    She says that I am too passionate and that she need it more soft, slow and relaxed and she can't get into it my way. She also says she is more submissive compared to dominant, when I wanted dominate more.
  15. J

    How do you know if you are sexually compatible with a less experienced person?

    Oh we are both autistic, sorry for not specifying. I guess she just kind of lays there and is very vanilla about it, not doing much. Where as I guess I normally like more passion if that makes sense? Thank you for the replies and input everyone!
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