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    HELP! I'm really struggling with flatmate's boyfriend staying over !!!

    Thank you so much. You have all been very supportive, and the unanimous advice is that I should leave this horrible environment and toxic flatmate behind as soon as possible. I have two months left of the tenancy. And then I am going home to live with my mum temporarily. I am very happy...
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    HELP! I'm really struggling with flatmate's boyfriend staying over !!!

    Thank you. I am having a really hard time with blaming myself at the moment. i always take people's opinions as the facts for some reason. So when she says I am being controlling and unreasonable and totally abnormal. I totally believe her. I have lost all confidence :(
  3. Hattie

    HELP! I'm really struggling with flatmate's boyfriend staying over !!!

    Hi everyone, You are all so helpful and understanding (something I find very rare!!!), it is really helping me to read this comments. Here is an update: she told me that the boyfriend will be staying over Wednesday for date night and Thursday after band practise. He would've/ would be staying...
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    HELP! I'm really struggling with flatmate's boyfriend staying over !!!

    Thank you everyone, for your kind advice. I have looked up the tenancy agreement, it is an assured shorthold tenancy agreement and it says that the tenant must.... "Not permit any visitor to stay on the property for a period of more than three weeks within any three month period" So I don't...
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    HELP! I'm really struggling with flatmate's boyfriend staying over !!!

    I feel it's unreasonable to ask as she leaves the house at 8am for work.
  6. Hattie

    HELP! I'm really struggling with flatmate's boyfriend staying over !!!

    Would it be unreasonable to ask if he stays 2 nights max? Or that he stays here the same amount of times that she stays at his a week? (He lives with his parents but she is allowed to stay). Also is it unreasonable to suggest that the boyfriend is not allowed in the flat without the girlfriend...
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    HELP! I'm really struggling with flatmate's boyfriend staying over !!!

    Thanks so much for the advice Lucy. My name is on the lease unfortunately :( I could ask about the rent but I feel that 3-4 nights a week isn't enough for me to say he is practically living there, even though it feels that way to me!!! I was thinking of maybe asking if he could stay 2 nights...
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    HELP! I'm really struggling with flatmate's boyfriend staying over !!!

    Hi, I have autism and very bad social anxiety. I live with my best friend in a 2 bedroom flat, we moved in a few months ago and things are going AWFULLY!! I have lived with other people before by the way, last year I successfully shared a 2 bed flat, but this is completely different. The...
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    SCARY STORY in 5 WORDS

    Ladies brunch at 12pm
  10. Hattie

    22 yr old girl, just diagnosed

    Thank you everybody for your warm welcomes :D So sorry that a lot of you have been through a similar path of misdiagnosis. I really wish I knew many many years ago, as I'm sure a lot of you guys do too.
  11. Hattie

    OTHER FORUMS?!

    Haha! That did make me laugh
  12. Hattie

    OTHER FORUMS?!

    I cant believe you used to be part of the snake forum too! We have a lot in common :smiley:
  13. Hattie

    Lack of Commitment or Interest in Exercise or Diet?

    Yes I agree completely about excercising. My flatmate is NT and takes me to the gym with her sometimes.... a lot of the people there seem very NT I have to say.... I get bored after 5 minutes even though usually I love people watching. She also tried to teach me some 'body toning' excercises...
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    OTHER FORUMS?!

    Boyyy, I haven't joined a forum in years!!! I used to be part of the Dr Who forum and a snake forum. How about you guys? What other forums have you ever been part of?
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    22 yr old girl, just diagnosed

    Hello everyone else too
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