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Recent content by Harpuia

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    Loneliness & the need for friendship?

    Because defending what I have now beats losing it in an attempt to be someone I wasn't meant to be. For example, at least I don't have to worry about financial issues. Ever. In 19 months I have saved enough for a new car and a down payment for a house if I wanted to but there isn't a car or...
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    Loneliness & the need for friendship?

    For me, I just had to learn to know my place in society. My six-month pursuit (since I started seeing the psychologist) of making friends only led me to a road where I nearly lost my job. I can't risk what I have for the small chance that my social life will turn around. I know my place now...
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    Loneliness & the need for friendship?

    I had tried for about 12 years to socialize with groups and I had been able to get into groups, the problem was staying with them (or even a single friend) for any longer than several months or so without a serious crisis starting. The cycle seems bound to happen: The person likes me. We...
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    how do they spot us?

    Which is sad because we're always told that we're the most "tolerant" generation in history. Hilarious.
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    how do they spot us?

    strangely enough though, older people don't seem to care as much about it. It seems like I only have trouble with this with younger people. I don't know why. :/
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    how do they spot us?

    People will "tolerate" me when they need someone, anyone to talk to, and then they will talk to me. When life gets better for them they shove me to the side like day old meat, no longer willing to "tolerate" those "different vibes" that they feel toward me. Others have sensed just that...
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    Aspies and Marriages

    Wow, if this is how people think guys my age are like and I've never been in a relationship then I am screwed. :/ Told don't date a girl (significantly) younger than me because of the maturity issues. Told on the other end don't date a girl a little younger, same age, or older because all...
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    Why is holding a grudge = the bullies win? I don't get it.

    This question has been bugging me for a while now, and someone had mentioned this on another site, but it seems all too cliche. For those that have been seriously bullied in high school/college, like bullying beyond that of just normal playteasing on a regular basis, many of them go on to...
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    Ctrl+V

    Ffffff
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    Do you have a nemesis?

    This one guy that keeps harassing me on my blogs, on forums I go to, etc. He claims that he made lots of money with gold margin spot trading in the stock market and he became an overnight millionaire. And now he's throwing in my face that he's a millionaire at 24 doing absolutely nothing...
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    How close are you to your family?

    Despite living a few miles from them, I ain't really that close to my family at all. They ruined my life as a teen with their evangelical ******** and them helping my bullies torment me for three years and we're still trying to recuperate from those days.
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    Fiber Intake

    Thanks for the insight. Because I've been feeling like I've choked on a medium-sized golf ball for about 4 hours now, but I'm hungry. Maybe I should try eating something with no fiber to end the day. That would put me at... I think 12? This is tougher than I thought.
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    Fiber Intake

    So my doctor had told me a while back that I needed to increase my fiber intake because it could be critically low right now, but I still have time to fix it. I decided to give it a try today. I decided to add one Fiber One chocolate bar as a snack every day starting today. I'm on day one...
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    Hatred of team sports

    By virtue of having just enough athletic ability to get by in running (faster than the other nerds but still slower than an average person), I was always picked around 3rd or 4th to last, not just dead last. In basketball, I was around middle of the pack due to me being able to shoot well. And...
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    Giving Up

    The issue I've been having is that there aren't any positive things in my life and there are several dozen negatives. Some of the things on the negative end that I would see as positive or neutral about me about 95% of other people see as negative. Example: I got in a fight in a chat the other...
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