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Recent content by Gini

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    How do I keep a NT friend

    How about this...Focus on listening. Ask questions about what she tells you. Then follow her lead..let her open up gradually and you reciprocate?
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    Sudden Shut-down. What Should I Do?

    Thank you.
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    Sudden Shut-down. What Should I Do?

    UPDATE: I got a phone call from "long lost love's" brother today. He called because I left a short message on the answering machine and asked "love" to call me. His brother told me that he died last Tuesday. I am devastated. I last spoke with him Monday night. He didn't intentionally miss one...
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    Sudden Shut-down. What Should I Do?

    GadAbout, What he did was pretty low. That's where I'm conflicted. Do I really want a relationship with someone so inconsiderate of me. On the other hand, I certainly understand how someone on the spectrum would have a difficult time processing the relationship. I was married to my Aspie husband...
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    Sudden Shut-down. What Should I Do?

    I understand. I don't like it, but I understand.
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    Sudden Shut-down. What Should I Do?

    So, you don't think I should even write him a short letter? (sigh, I don't really want to hear that!)
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    Sudden Shut-down. What Should I Do?

    I'm sure you're right about it being confusing and frustrating for him. Since it was right after my aneurysm diagnosis and he said he was deeper into me than he admitted before that he was trying to start an argument as an excuse to back out of the relationship. By this time, we were pretty...
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    Sudden Shut-down. What Should I Do?

    Thank you for your response. The thing is that we have an agreement to not discuss politics and we've stuck with that. This was "out of the blue." Also, I didn't discuss politics with him this time. I just listened. I know better than get into it with him and I didn't. It seemed to me like he...
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    Sudden Shut-down. What Should I Do?

    I've been reading the forums for a while now and found there are many intelligent and helpful people here. I am looking for feedback and hope you all can help me. I'll be as brief as possible given the complicated relationship. This past January, I reconnected with my first teenage boyfriend...
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