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Recent content by Cqualt

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    Relationship troubles need advice/insight

    I expressed this to her that this relationship is not healthy, both acknowledged her poor boundaries because people pleading which I can understand and empathise with, and expressed that I've noticed patterns, 1 or 2 experiences given benefit of the doubt but when I noticed multiple occurances...
  2. C

    Relationship troubles need advice/insight

    I work full time, I have my own place I rent, I expressed to her numerous times over the course of months before the dynamic even became real that I could foresee problems of stagnance for the relationship and going backwards etc especially when I expressed I tried getting along with Guy2 but I...
  3. C

    Relationship troubles need advice/insight

    Thank u, sadly a mistake I've made was I kept removing myself from the situation without confronting with boundaries, but to be honest even if it I did I don't think anything would of changed anyway lol but thank you so much for Ur insight it's really appreciated
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    Relationship troubles need advice/insight

    That's the thing.... Shortly after her mom passed maybe a month and a half I said I'm not happy and things need to change prepared to walk away, she called me a liar and that I don't love her and if I leave her in a liar and never meant a word, then promised to tell him and change things etc so...
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    Relationship troubles need advice/insight

    But I believe it's her autism (she has also help describe) she blindly believes anything he has said despite things I've been told and experienced, it's like making me second guess am I wrong? Am I over thinking it? I makes me super confused, she's said that she doesnt lie because of her autism...
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    Relationship troubles need advice/insight

    Unfortunately I had the same perspective, but her perspective is 100% opposite, he's only a friend and a brother where her parents saw him as a son, he's an emotional safety net/support system for her, she described her brain is when she's told something she takes it as is directly, so when he...
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    Relationship troubles need advice/insight

    Part 2 : Her version : Guy2 has been a good friend for 10 years and has always been there and asking him to leave feels like she's being asked to end the friendships (despite being told Guy1 still wishes for her to have her friendship with him) That because she lost her mom several...
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    Relationship troubles need advice/insight

    Long post : part1 His version : Guy1 (35, boyfriend) has adhd and cptsd, meets girl, girl (30, autism) and guy never ever have a problem get along and very compatible lots of things in common She has a male best friend Guy2 (38, male friend) who has been low key obsessed with her, he was 26...
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