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Recent content by Cate

  1. Cate

    Blocking

    Inviting them to an outing is a brilliant idea. In my scenario, had I known I would have been accepting. Such is life. If I may ask, how were you manipulated/mistreated? Sometimes I feel like that too. Doesn't help that I also have abandonment issues and react.
  2. Cate

    Blocking

    I know this feeling. It's like when you're on a bus and expecting it to keep traveling down the road you're on, but suddenly it turns and you feel disoriented. Exactly.
  3. Cate

    Blocking

  4. Cate

    Blocking

    Thank you for the response. You sound very balanced and literate. What do you do in Philly? I was there for the Rock and Roll Half-Marathon about 10 years ago. I reside in Toronto.
  5. Cate

    Blocking

    Thank you for the kind words. What was your experience? Similar?
  6. Cate

    Blocking

    You're right. I am moving on. He knows how/where to reach me!
  7. Cate

    Blocking

    Thank you for the response. I am still processing that this happened. All I can do is hope at this point. Being a person with an anxious attachment style, and a fear of abandonment, it always takes me longer to get over someone. I understand I will have to go through the steps eventually. At...
  8. Cate

    Blocking

    I understand what you are saying. Yes, sometimes relationships don't work out with anyone . .. Asperger's or otherwise All I meant was if I had more information, I would have handled the situation differently. No kisses or hand-holding. Also, the miscommunication by text and words...
  9. Cate

    Blocking

    I fear you may be right. Since he explained things to me and blocked me, I don't feel he thinks he has anything further to do. He also didn't respond to my email apologizing and saying if he wants to reach out to call me. He generally knows I am a good soul, but in this case he may just wish to...
  10. Cate

    Blocking

    I felt he had some symptoms ie hyper focussed on his photography, driving, and the sensory issues. Also, one day i commented on something about Asperger's and you could hear a pin drop.
  11. Cate

    Blocking

    I agree. I won't reach out unless he does. Can't help but wonder if he met someone else. However, why would I want to be with a guy who has blocked me for 5 days. Also, I found out that he was separated. Then later he admitted his wife was living upstairs and he was downstairs. To think, he...
  12. Cate

    Blocking

    I am okay with the space but i hope at some point he unblocks me. Perhaps, he felt like i insulted his manhood, since I moved a but faster than he did. Very confusing, because a few days before he wanted to go away with me, though that was quashed since I felt it was too sudden and that made...
  13. Cate

    Blocking

    He offered friendship in his text and I agreed but then he had a meltdown about things I had no idea about and then things snowballed and we ended the call abruptly. Two days after the call I sent him an email with an apology since I was in shock and processing what he said on the phone and...
  14. Cate

    Blocking

    Hello. My name is Cate. I recently dated a man with Asperger's. We went out for 2-3 weeks and then he dropped me by text. I do not have Asperger's and wasn't aware until now about the aversion to hand holding or kissing. He felt I took advantage but based on his words I didn't think so...
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