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Recent content by boringclod

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    Could this be why I was rejected as a teenager?

    And BTW: One thing has changed in my mind/heart since then: I have developed care for others. So, now, instead of just wishing that 'I' would fit in, I am caring about other's pains and sorrows and joys and pleaseures, which has reduced my own need to feel like I fit in. That looking back I do...
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    Could this be why I was rejected as a teenager?

    I also look back and have regrets. And my regrets are also based on what I didn't and couldn't know. And, my regrets are kinda my attempt to imagine how much 'better off' I would have been, or how much 'happier' I'd be now "if only . . . "In my mind (literally), it's all fantasy and a...
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    Do Any Of You have trouble making friends? I know I have problems with making friends.

    C S Lewis said that all friendships begin with "you too?!" I find few folks with as broad and varied of interests as myself, fewer who want to have substantive conversations, and fewer still who are divergent thinkers who want to explore ideas. I have a few friends wo are close. That worries...
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    Hello from a boring clod

    "Honey" What a hoot! Haven't been called that in decades. Truly: LOL!
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    Hello from a boring clod

    I gotta make myself a t-shirt that says: STAND BACK! "BORING CLOD AT WORK"
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    Hello from a boring clod

    Even with as little time as I have spent here, I must say the feeling I have is one of being enjoyed for one's quirks and oddities rather than always leaving bunch of confused, hurt, off-put, or irtitated people in my wake. : - ) (BTW: despising emojis and typing : - ) for a smiley face is but...
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    Hello from a boring clod

    OK, fine! I FEEL like a clod - a dolt who says and does things that leave others backing slowly away without looking away from this odd thing that just shocked them. Maybe bore or boor is better? : - )
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    Hello from a boring clod

    A dullard, a gauche person, one who is socially inept and boorish, unsophisticated. That's my definition, I'm sure Websters, et al, will have different. : - )
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    Hello from a boring clod

    Hello, I'm a 64yo male clod. I'm not officially diagnosed, but I self-check almost all the boxes in the list. Never wept over any one close to me dying. Even attended deaths of friends and been rather unaffected. Never understood how people could so easily 'know what to do and say' in this or...
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