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    Being too radical

    Look for people who just "get it" and you'll be happy as a clam and won't need to seek interesting connection from those unfit for you
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    Being too radical

    If you spend a lot of time thinking alone, remember that you bring to the table the weight of all the avenues you've travelled. And that's confronting to people who don't spend a lot of time on the act as you do. The ability to be original in thought is extremely dependent on having a wide...
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    Very interesting, I know exactly what you are talking about. Hahaha my dad has said the same and...

    Very interesting, I know exactly what you are talking about. Hahaha my dad has said the same and shown me that exact comic (aspie)
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    Oh I didn't know, that is horrible. Yeah I am too. Information in general tbh. I can absorb an...

    Oh I didn't know, that is horrible. Yeah I am too. Information in general tbh. I can absorb an extreme amount of information and have almost no filter for relevance so processing time is extremely slow but thorough and that taxes me too much if try mentally sprint all the time. Especially if...
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    True, I don't really follow politics anymore but I guess it's good to get out of immigration...

    True, I don't really follow politics anymore but I guess it's good to get out of immigration detention being stuck for 2 years without knowing what was going to happen
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    No good deed goes unpunished :)

    No good deed goes unpunished :)
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    Thanks! It's been an odd few years right hahaha. I don't think she'd be able to handle the...

    Thanks! It's been an odd few years right hahaha. I don't think she'd be able to handle the protest tractors AND helicopters
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    Autistic Men and attracting women

    Being ok with never having sex is the first step to getting some. Don't think of individual women as representatives for a demographic or category but as individuals complete in their own right and you'll find that you will change the way you interact automatically. If you want genuine...
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    Getting my face ripped off at work again

    I agree, and it's difficult to put that into practice when you've habituated fusion with thoughts. A way I use to to parse things is this: You have thoughts that have different qualities that inform how you perceive them. Thoughts you "receive" are ones you "hear" more than "say" in your...
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    Autism and narcissistic traits, how do you tell them apart in yourself?

    Oh I see you, that must have been very frustrating. I understand what you are saying to me beyond the words too, thanks :) I do get tired of it all sometimes and want to give up and live in the bush. Most of the time I go straight to wanting to die but that's for other reasons mostly, I use...
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    am I´m getting fooled?

    My friend, I believe you're too locked in to this right now. Just take a break and step back from everything. Sleep on it and just let her go, no need for you to address how she made you feel, though it feels unfair and dishonest, it is not a problem anymore as she is leaving and doing anything...
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    Autism and narcissistic traits, how do you tell them apart in yourself?

    I'm sorry to hear you've had such a rough time. I can't relate about how severe your experience is ( although I feel it and am heartbroken watching family go through their stuff when I know they are the sweetest people). I too have had a lot of trouble with professionals though a lot of that in...
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    Men, advice to your autistic childhood self

    I can't answer in the way asked for, but my advice is to try help him anchor his self worth within himself so he doesn't seek it from others and suffer. Beat him over the head (figuratively) with the fact other people all have their own things going on and to never sell his self worth in...
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    am I´m getting fooled?

    Keep it minimal, It sounds as though any more will be inappropriate regardless of previous intent. Just let the situation die a natural easy death of professional distance ;) don't worry about what happened, it is very small and over analysing will make the reactions worse for both of you...
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    Autism and narcissistic traits, how do you tell them apart in yourself?

    Thanks, I do, I've been in and out of mental health since young. Got diagnosed with Bi polar and possible autism. Medicated for Bi polar though never got tested for autism because I believed I wasn't though genetically my sister and father are plus 2 psychiatrists and 1 psychologist suggested it...
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