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Recent content by AspieChris

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    How to get in a relationship when you do not like group events?

    If you really think about it, even bathing and putting on cologne before a date would be a firm of masking. Nobody actually smells like apples or roses. We do it as a sign of respect for others. So being conscious of the tone of your voice or where your hands are is really just about making...
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    Which The A-Team Character ?

    Me too. Murdock was awesome. Crazy, but he was the only one who could fly. Helicopters, airplanes, it didn’t matter.
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    How to get in a relationship when you do not like group events?

    You should never try to change yourself in order to be in a relationship. It doesn’t matter what you’re into, there’s probably someone who would enjoy sharing that with you. The irony is that things like politics and sports are what everyone talks about, but they are never the backbone of a...
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    How to get in a relationship when you do not like group events?

    The best way to guarantee that a relationship will fail before it ever becomes physical is to announce that you are only interested in sex (it doesn’t matter how you present the conversation…. she will hear it as “only sex”) Relationships and sex are a game that has rules. Rules that everyone...
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    How to get in a relationship when you do not like group events?

    Advice: Never settle for a person who wants more or less from life than you do. If you tried to force yourself into a group event just to meet someone, you’d most likely meet someone who enjoys group events. Then you would constantly be putting yourself back into that uncomfortable situation to...
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    Asbestos Concern

    You should be able to get a kit that samples the air onto a filter, then send the filter to a lab for testing. They put the little filter under a microscope and count the particles. Might be a couple of hundred dollars but it’s exactly how a professional does the testing. Even the pros don’t...
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    Memory: Does anyone here really struggle with their memory?

    I remember minute details with startling clarity of things that nobody else notices, and Im always surprised when nobody else has a clue what I’m talking about. Then I forget things that everyone else remembers very easily. THEN I get treated as if I wasn’t paying attention and I get in trouble...
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    I get no respect for things I'm an expert in with my family

    Just my thoughts here…… My mother it the same. I was berated my whole childhood and through my early 20’s for not doing or wanting to do things that she could brag about to friends. She even amended her will to exclude me from any inheritance if I didn’t “earn a degree from a 4-year accredited...
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    Which approaches help you more when memorizing new material?

    Pick a favorite song and rewrite the lyrics to explain the thing you’re trying to memorize. Then memorize the song with the new lyrics. I still remember every word from a couple of those from decades ago
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    Asbestos Concern

    Your concerns are definitely in line with the actual dangers of asbestos exposure. However the issue is how much is too much? If I take the example of automobile brake pads and shoes as an example…… That black dust on the rims of every car has asbestos in it. It’s used because of the extreme...
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    Asbestos Concern

    The reality is that asbestos fibers are much lije sand. It’s dusty until wet, and becomes dusty again when dry. BUT…. even though asbestos is definitely linked to diseases of the lungs, it’s a lot like smoke from a fireplace. A little never hurt anyone. It’s going to take a LOT more exposure...
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    Are you understood?

    I’m alone, on an island. Surrounded by people but painfully alone. Misunderstood by laymen and misdiagnosed by professionals. Wanting everything I can see, but it’s all just outside my grasp. It’s exhausting.
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    Boredom with food

    I’ll eat the same exact meal for years. Such as a bowl of Cheerios or s ham and turkey sandwich on white bread. And then, out of the blue, one day I’ll be sick of it and never go back.
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    Nonstop Analyzing After Conversations Makes Me Hesitant to Actually Have Conversations

    I still do it every time. Even with my wife of 25 years. It’s probably why we’re still married.
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    Dysautonomia? What on earth?

    There’s a whole list of diseases that are only recently being discovered as being the result of auto ammune diseases. Things like type 2 diabetes, Crohn’s disease, psoriasis, etc. The immune system malfunctions and attacks the body, causing ailments that come with a terrible list of symptoms...
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