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Recent content by Amanda27

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    How do I know how an AS man really feels about me/our relationship?

    I appreciate your direct honesty and it is what I have come in search for...other viewpoints and perspectives or maybe even confirmation for what I have been feeling inside but not wanting to accept. Many of the books I have read said that most AS men are willing to work on things for their...
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    How do I know how an AS man really feels about me/our relationship?

    Sorry you went through that. Yeh idk how I still believe in it but I do. My 8 year marriage that ended in 2013 was hell ...literally and domestically violent but that’s a completely different story that has definitely has effects on how I view life, relationships and oddly enough from a...
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    How do I know how an AS man really feels about me/our relationship?

    Lol, thank you. I am kinda all over the place. My biggest ones are volunteering, birding, hiking and traveling whenever possible and taking photos of birds/hikes/travels. I go to the gym to be healthier physically but it’s also fun stress relief. The other stuff is more sporadic or personal...
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    How do I know how an AS man really feels about me/our relationship?

    I realize long distance is very complicated and odds are against it most of the time but idk I always have hope and believe anything is possible if two people love each other and want to be together. Yes, I agree it is a very one sided relationship....I don’t think his intentions are bad but can...
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    How do I know how an AS man really feels about me/our relationship?

    Yes, that’s part of why I feel like he may actually have feelings for me because he has let me on but at the same time I have let him into my domain as well and deserve the same in return. I’m trying to follow his lead and go with the flow but as I mentioned before, just want to know where this...
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    How do I know how an AS man really feels about me/our relationship?

    Hiking, traveling, volunteering at domestic violence shelters, homeless shelters, animals, caring and helping those in need basically, birding, taking photos of wild life and birds (mostly), going to the gym for Zumba and Kickboxing abs Step Class, going to concerts and festivals, antique store...
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    How do I know how an AS man really feels about me/our relationship?

    Hi, Yes, I can. I have been taking it one day at a time but it’s been nearly a year and 6 months since we first started talking so at this point I know how I feel about him and have expressed it to him. So I just want to know the same from him and I think by this time he should know if he wants...
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    How do I know how an AS man really feels about me/our relationship?

    I have asked him directly, how do you feel about me numerous times. How do you think about me? He has said everything from he is still single but unavailable since he is with me, he lives thousands of miles away, then it’s FL would work for a relationship bc he will be here to visit family. He...
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    How do I know how an AS man really feels about me/our relationship?

    It’s not a matter of him marrying me, I don’t believe one has to get married to be in a committed relationship. I would be happy being his life partner.....which to me is like being married just no government paperwork behind it and no change in my name. I do not put restraints or rules on him...
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    How do I know how an AS man really feels about me/our relationship?

    Your last sentence is exactly what I fear. Long distance doesn’t scare me away and neither does the AS, I like that he is different but I don’t want to be a fool. I also realize that long distance cannot be forever so at some point one of us has to move or we both move to a mutually agreed upon...
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    How do I know how an AS man really feels about me/our relationship?

    I don’t think he is using me because he has family and friends here he could stay with. As he stayed with a friend before moved in with me. I have wondered about the other girlfriend since he seems to visit the same cities periodically but idk I just don’t feel that’s the case. I don’t think he...
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    How do I know how an AS man really feels about me/our relationship?

    Thank you Fino for your response. I am a very patient person and have been trying to be very understanding. Before him I never really new much about AS and have been reading books to try and understand him better so we could build something. I don’t know why it’s so hard either to say how he...
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    How do I know how an AS man really feels about me/our relationship?

    Let's see, guess I will start from the beginning... The man I am with has AS and was diagnosed years back. We met on a dating app at the end of 2017 and met in person two months later. We originally didn't see each other all that often but typically messaged every day. As the months progressed...
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    Hi. New to the forum

    Hi Major Tom, yes he has said that numerous times as well.
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    Hi. New to the forum

    Thank you clg114. Glad to be part of the community.
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