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Recent content by alwayzambi

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    anyone else told that they are smart but nothing to show for it

    No not at all. thats my fault even if, the things u grapple with obsessing over details I grapple with too... its kind of weird but at somepoint im going to stop listening to my own mind... jeez this is so weird lol... how do u deal with or is it overwhelming, Jorg
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    Completing Coursework/Projects

    Okrad I see you are autistic, have you finished school or no, like where are you now with that? - I understand, Southern Discomfort are you still in school, did you eventually change it? WittyAspie, well well it appears that you were fortunate to learn some great copign mechanisms. I dont...
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    anyone else told that they are smart but nothing to show for it

    Wow.
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    Learning by yourself:How not to get stucked?

    Yep I remember learning Flash, it took a while before it clicked... I think they are special ways to learn these web technologies as it relates to aspies
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    Did people give you hints that you were Aspie before you knew?

    Hi Cory, What is the theory you came up with about how aspies gain knowledge of self, great insights/ stories, btw. thanks for sharing... the only hint i got was that somethign was always weird or off, wasnt aware of the term.
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    anyone else told that they are smart but nothing to show for it

    Does anyone else get told that they know so much, but achieve so little. Like an underachiever but applied to life? How do you manage that? It may come with fear of risk taking perfectionism.
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    over 35 and concerned i may move back home due to employment

    I would have to say one of the major frustrations in my life is seeing people I know climb up their career ladder while Ive been at the same role ive been for ten years. It happens over and over again. Even my younger family members make more. That is a "spectacular" frustration. I used to be...
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    Completing Coursework/Projects

    Yes, giving yourself deadlines are the key to success, mind tricks. I have to be better at implementing that, I dont take my own self seriously I mistakenly think I live in a world with no deadlines. It's just a matter of willpower to do it.
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    Completing Coursework/Projects

    I'm with you, I'm on year of 5 building my portfolio site. How has the trouble you mention affect you negatively? if at all
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    New User, 37, Aspie, ADHD Anxiety from NYC Web Developer

    Hello, My name is Alwayz I work in Advertising as a Web Developer My concern is being able to provide for myself, Ive made money but, my issues have gotten older as I have gotten older. I have been a junior developer for 9 years while others have moved up the ladder. I was fired from my job at...
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