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Trying to find potential dates on dating apps and the internet only.

BrianWV39

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Hello, my name is Brian, I am 39 from the state of West Virginia. The primary reason I use social media is to help assist me in my quest for a romantic relationship. I used to be more social when I was younger. But now I do not really meet people socially or out in public. When I am out and about it is usually just for shopping or purely utilitarian reason. My joy and satisfaction in life comes from being at home and relaxing.

I often read online looking for advice and ideas of how to get a girlfriend. Perhaps the most frequent advice is to go join group events and meet people in person. This may be great advice for lots of people, but it is not great practical advice for me. For starters I do not enjoy any group or social activities like that. Second even if I met someone out in public like that the problem is I am a rather unique person. Obviously, I am autistic and I live a bit of an alternative lifestyle.

I know I am a little less social than most people. So I worry by going out in public I am only going to meet people I disappoint with my lifestyle. I much rather meet someone online and be able to explain myself right away. For example I love relaxing and taking it easy at home. I love music, I love reading, I love weed, I love writing, and I love sex. I am looking for someone who is interested doing these things with me.

I really hope to find the right person for me. That is my biggest goal in life. I am obviously very happy to chat on here or anywhere else. Thank you so very much for taking the time to read this and I hope you have a lovely day.
 
I don't value money or a career as much as most people. I live more of a hippie lifestyle. I realize most people are not like me so I worry just asking out random women would not do me much good. I am more of an acquired taste. At least I hope I am acquired ;) that part is still just a theory.
 
You sound optimistic, despite your situation, so kudos for that I guess?

Good luck with finding a girlfriend!
 

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