I am a NT and my boyfriend is an aspie. We have been together for about a year now (long distance) and we've been through a lot. The first six months of our relationship have been really hard because I just didn't understand him. However, I have started to understand his actions more and now most of the things he does doesn't bother me that much at all.
We're both on summer break and he has a lot of free time. I really want him to spend more time with me before he leaves for vacation and will be gone for a few weeks. I will be really depressed when he leaves because i'm just used to having him with me all the time. For the past week, I have been asking him directly to spend time with me by watching something with me online... the usual things we do since we can't physically be with each other. I feel like i'm annoying him every time I ask him because it feels like he doesn't want to even spend time with me. And it really makes me sad when he spends more time playing games with his friend.
When my boyfriend wakes up, the first thing he does is play games with his friends until it's time for him to sleep, which is usually 12am. Most of the time, he only talks to me after he's done playing and he's all tired. It makes me really sad and upset because he falls asleep on me all the time.
For the past week, I have asked him to spend time with me and when he agrees, it's only for about an hour until I notice that he's not even interested and starts getting bored. His friend keeps asking him to play games with him which takes away my time from him. And i only have three weeks left until he leaves for vacation.
How can I make my boyfriend want to spend more time with me and enjoy it? (Note that I have tried playing games with him but the game got boring after a while. Also, his friend keeps bothering him and asking to play so.... -___-)
We're both on summer break and he has a lot of free time. I really want him to spend more time with me before he leaves for vacation and will be gone for a few weeks. I will be really depressed when he leaves because i'm just used to having him with me all the time. For the past week, I have been asking him directly to spend time with me by watching something with me online... the usual things we do since we can't physically be with each other. I feel like i'm annoying him every time I ask him because it feels like he doesn't want to even spend time with me. And it really makes me sad when he spends more time playing games with his friend.
When my boyfriend wakes up, the first thing he does is play games with his friends until it's time for him to sleep, which is usually 12am. Most of the time, he only talks to me after he's done playing and he's all tired. It makes me really sad and upset because he falls asleep on me all the time.
For the past week, I have asked him to spend time with me and when he agrees, it's only for about an hour until I notice that he's not even interested and starts getting bored. His friend keeps asking him to play games with him which takes away my time from him. And i only have three weeks left until he leaves for vacation.

How can I make my boyfriend want to spend more time with me and enjoy it? (Note that I have tried playing games with him but the game got boring after a while. Also, his friend keeps bothering him and asking to play so.... -___-)