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I must teach an autistic girl.

Hi people :)
I'm an experienced and effective teacher of maths - to normal people. But I'm in trouble, I think.

A senior man of my extended family ( I'm Maori) asked me to teach his 15 yr old daughter, because she cannot calculate the change she should receive at the shop. "We know you're brilliant".

Whereas, I know from my own experience that information can NOT be pushed into me, and I imagine that it must be the same for this child.
"Sweetness" has been living overseas with her Mum, who is a professional remedial teacher, for the last few years, and is reported to have made no progress whatever. She does not retain the learning.

My own experience might be relevant. When I was younger I was really driven to succeed in some kind of work. I studied for years to gain professional skills in engineering. I floundered for a long, long time, learning the grammar of mathematics, while not really understanding how saying things in math means something in the real.
There came a moment when the mathematical descriptions of things suddenly clicked with my experience of the real world.
I had had difficulties uniting my understanding of the abstract with my experience of the real. When I clicked, my understanding became grounded and it all began to mean something.

Things "clicked" for me. Are such things ever likely to "click" for our little girl? She will be here in a few days... I'm trying to get ready.

The Big Question:
Does anyone have any advice at all on how I might proceed?
I'd really like to hear from some girls on the forum please please. This little one, whose name is too distinctive to mention, is in real trouble.
 

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