Houbouthat
New Member
Hi all,
I am a NT and tried to be in a relationship with someone on the autism spectrum. She was also bipolar and had manic depression. I always tried to make her happy and she would get upset very often but in turn it upset me because I truely want to enjoy every minute of life especially when away from work. My generalized question is I understand everyone living with autism is unqiue like all people but to those of you with auspergers is it almost impossible to let things go and just relax? I really wanted to make it work with the gf but she literally thought the world was against her. Hey life is tough and it can suck sometimes but one of the tricks I use is try not letting everything get to you. Wishing everyone the best and just trying to learn..thanks for reading.
I am a NT and tried to be in a relationship with someone on the autism spectrum. She was also bipolar and had manic depression. I always tried to make her happy and she would get upset very often but in turn it upset me because I truely want to enjoy every minute of life especially when away from work. My generalized question is I understand everyone living with autism is unqiue like all people but to those of you with auspergers is it almost impossible to let things go and just relax? I really wanted to make it work with the gf but she literally thought the world was against her. Hey life is tough and it can suck sometimes but one of the tricks I use is try not letting everything get to you. Wishing everyone the best and just trying to learn..thanks for reading.