Asperger's & Autism Forum

tree

I know how you could find out.
Ask them whether it's ok to ask them.

How long is "long while"?

Judge

From what I see, it's profoundly their job to be friendly to all customers. More so perhaps than their competition. You might ponder this before proceeding any further with them:

The Untold Truth Of Dutch Bros Coffee - Mashed

Founded in 1992, Dutch Bros Coffee is considered to be the largest, privately-owned drive-through coffee company in America and it's only getting bigger.

www.mashed.com

tree

"The company is committed to hiring naturally outgoing workers to fill its positions in order to keep customers feeling like they matter."

There is that aspect, certainly.

Markness

A long while can mean over six months for me.

tree

Are the employees having personal conversations with you?
Do they know the names of your cats, for example?
And where you work? etc.....

Markness

One calls me “friend” and will look happy to see me. I think I’ve told her about Petey and that I work at the public library but she doesn’t ask me questions related to those topics.

tree

If she doesn't talk about your pets or work, what does she do?
Anything that goes beyond her job description?

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Slime_Punk

I wouldn't, but that's just me. They're just being professional, most likely, not personal.

Aspychata

If you ask, it should be simply hey l think you're great, is it okay to give you my number, or give a tip with your number on your library business card. That way you aren't asking.

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Luca

Might be similar to the workers at Trader Joe’s. They are trained to be overly friendly. But they sometimes border on intrusive…